Congratulations! You’re here because you want to try pegging. Or you may be here because you’re not entirely sure on what it consists? Pegging is the act where a man is anally penetrated by a female partner. And if you want a little known fact, this practice was actually named as a result of a contest back in the early 2000’s…good dinner trivia, if you’re so inclined wink*.
Plenty of people enjoy it because it’s a way of experimenting with role reversal or role swap. Here, in theory, the woman will be doing all the work or at the very least will be in control while the man is being the receptive partner in sex. If you’ve never thought about this before, take a minute to think about it; if you’re a woman imagine your partner falling apart below you while you’re in control. If you’re a man, imagine relinquishing control completely while your partner takes charge. Interesting, right?
Now, pegging does require some preparation beforehand. Just like any anal practice is not something you want to suddenly surprise your partner 5 seconds before it happens. Besides the preparation for the act, you will also need some equipment, but that’s all part of the very fun process involved.
First, you will need a dildo. They come in many shapes, sizes and varieties so you have tons of models to choose from. There are some dildos that vibrate, adding a new layer of pleasure to the experience. On the other hand, there are some dildos that include a part you can insert inside you if you also want to get in the fun. And if you want something more realistic, you can always just get a regular no-fuss dildo that looks like the real thing. You can find them in all colors, ranging from very realistic (some even have veins!) to less realistic bright pink ones.
Now, it’s important for you to know most dildos are made of plastic and they are made in a certain angle or position. That works great because they are able to hit different spots depending on the position, just like the real life penises we know and love. That is why is so important to read beforehand and do your research; each person is different and has different needs, so you will probably need to experiment a little to find the best dildo for you and your partner.
Something else you will need is a harness to make the whole experience hands free. A harness is a must in order to hold the dildo in place and to fully incorporate your new penis to the experience. Do some research to know what harness works best for your dildo; as a rule of thumb, dildos with a flared based are the ones that can be put in a harness.
Lubrication is something very important at all times and even more if you’re playing anally. The water based ones don’t harm silicone or jelly dildos and they also clean up really easily. The oil based one do degrade silicone, plastic and jelly toys, so make sure not to use them. And silicone based lubricants are really slippery so that’s great, but they tend to damage silicone and jelly, so make sure your toy is not made of any of those materials.
And don’t forget about a towel! Lubricant can get into unexpected places and you don’t want to be all slippery; if you’re worried about your sheets it’s always a good idea to lay down a towel before you get in the fun. Preparation first!
