Getting a strap on is the first step and using it is the second although it is just how nature intended. But what do you need to know before starting your pegging activities? Well, today I am here to tell you about some common ‘rules’ you will need to follow to have some amazing pegging.
The primary thing to do is to have an open conversation with your partner. If you want to try it, then talk about it with your partner and tell them you are curious about this. If you have tried it before with someone else, you could discuss how the experience went but obviously spare them the details just let them know if it was successful or not. The idea here is to talk freely about both your expectations, desires and fears so you can plan the best possible experience.
Another important thing you need to be is generous with the lube. As with other forms of anal play, you have to put a lot of lubricant for the experience to be enjoyable. Figure out which is the best lube for you depending on your toy. Generally, water based lube works well with the different materials such as silicone. But check first just to be on the safe side to make sure it is the best for you.
For those who will be penetrated, be sure to take some measures to be completely clean before the experience. Go to the toilet beforehand and take a nice long shower or even better, a bath. Remember to use some gentle and nice soap to clean your anus (you can also use pure glycerin). Keep in mind there is always a chance some fecal matter is left in the rectum, so the experience won’t always be ‘completely clean.’ But if you want to make sure you are really clean then you can always do an enema before engaging in pegging. Use some warm and plain water for the enema and let your anus rest for some time before it gets penetrated...so basically, don’t go straight to the bedroom after giving yourself an enema wink*
When the time comes for penetration, you need to warm up first. Think of it like a work out. If you don’t do your warm up first, you are going to have a bad time. In this case your fingers will be your best friend, just make sure your nails are short and trimmed. Ideally, you will insert a gloved and lube finger first to prepare the area. The glove and the lube will help things go over smoothly.
For the person wearing the strap on, the fit is super important. The harness should be comfortable and feel like a part of you to let you to move freely. Make sure the dildo is secured so it won’t fall! PS, as a basic rule, the person being penetrated chooses the dildo for obvious reasons wink*
If you want to give your guy a p-orgasm, you should aim to stimulate the prostate or the little nut size gland. It should be two or three inches inside the rectum towards the front of the body. However, this would depend on your man. Some enjoy combining prostate stimulation with some genital stimulation while others prefer the prostate massage alone, so you will need to experiment to see what your partner likes best. A cool thing about pegging is your hands will be free to roam and stimulate other body parts, so don’t be shy!
Keep in mind those wearing the harness do have additional options as well. For example, you can get a vibrating dildo. It can even be a double dildo to penetrate the wearer and the one being penetrated at the same time. Ohh the possibilities *wink*
