Using a strap on on your partner can be a lot of fun. If you’re looking to explore new things in the bedroom, a strap on can be a great solution to enjoy different and fresh experiences. Men also have a g-spot, only theirs is called p-spot because is located in the prostate, so the easiest way to get there is by penetrating him anally. See? Win-win for all! By the way, penetrating a man is also called pegging or doing the Bend Over Boyfriend (cute, right?)
So, you may be wondering what other good things this activity has and why you should try it and there are plenty of answers. The first thing, as I already mentioned, is prostate stimulation. This is a highly sensitive and erogenous area located in the rectum and surrounding the urethra. Men experience prostate orgasms and can even experience orgasms without ejaculating. Some fellas prefer prostate stimulation alone, while others like it better in combination with a little penis stimulation as well.
On the other hand, when you’re using a strap on, a power play and gender reversal comes into effect. You will be the one penetrating your partner instead of the other way around, so it will feel very different. Most women find it exhilarating and experience a newfound power sensation they couldn’t be able to experience otherwise. And who knows, you may find a dominant streak you didn’t thought you had before…
Just imagine looking down and seeing you with a penis. It may sound weird at first, but it can be highly erotic and kinky. A thing about wearing a strap on is you need to feel and be comfortable for it to work, so probably the more you use it and see yourself in the mirror, the more arousing it will be. Not to mention your partner can also be highly…enjoyed by the sight.
Another great thing about strap ons is, some models also have built in dildos or vibrators on your side. This is an amazing way for both of you to experience the sensation at the time. Other models have pockets where you can put a little bullet vibrator, for those who prefer that kind of stimulation. The great varieties of models offer something for everyone.
If you two want to give it a try, go ahead. Just remember to do your homework and research before you rush into things. When it’s finally time to try it, go slow and use plenty of lube. You may get into this practice thinking it will be a one-time thing or something for special occasions…or you can incorporate it and make it a regular in your sex life. Which one will be?