Your Ultimate Guides to Female Submission

Being a submissive doesn’t always mean you need to obey your master and do everything to satisfy their desires and sexual needs. Although this is the main task a submissive should fulfill inside a BDSM relationship, if we look deeper, being a submissive holds more power and control than might appear.

If you are a submissive, you know that pleasing your dominant partner is one of the most important things in your intimate life. And the most important aspect that you need to pay attention to is your outfit. The way you look can turn on your lover as soon as they lay their eyes on you, which is ultimately your goal.

Christmas is a great occasion to spoil your slave a little. It is the time when you can focus on their needs first. Perhaps, even surprise them with an exciting gift they will appreciate. But what do you give your submissive?

The submissive mindset is a curious thing. For your relationship to work you need to obey your Master and that is the way it should be. However this can make up for some trickier things.

There are several things a submissive has to keep in mind when they enter a submissive - dominant relationship. They will need to be respectful, tend to their master and obey them, for instance.

If you are a submissive, it may take you some time finding the perfect dominant for you. And that is ok; we’ve all been there.

Even if you feel you are a natural submissive, truth is, a great submissive is not born, it is made wink*. Every one can learn some things to be a better submissive; besides, you need to get in the right mindset in order to achieve all your goals.

You may believe the submissive person in a relationship doesn’t have to do anything besides what the Master instructs. And yes, that is true, but that doesn’t mean they don’t have other obligations.

They say that variety is the spice of life. Some perceptive (smartass) individuals would like to point out that spices are a personal preference and that everyone has their favorites. Personally I would add to that famous old saying, instead changing it to, ‘variety is the spice of your sex life.’

Many will look at this title, tilt their head and have an inquisitive expression on their face as they try to figure out exactly what they are seeing. It's the same reaction I get when I see a Taylor Swift video.

I talk a lot about the BDSM lifestyle. I also share quite often my personal preference for being a submissive and how I enjoy bondage and discipline and other forms of role play.

Life would be so much simpler if you could look at your lover and say, "I want you to tie me up, tell me what to do and spank me like the bad girl that I am when I misbehave." Okay, so maybe some of us can. But it took time.

Anyone can see or hear of bondage and decide that it sounds like a sensual delight that they'd like to pursue. Or, is that just me?