Please tell us a little bit about yourself – How would you describe your everyday vanilla life?
I’m a wife, a mom of two, a grammy of two and a dog mom. I work and workout. I love to bake and hang out with my friends.
When did you first realize you were into bondage?
When I was in my late teens to early twenties, I had a boyfriend who wasn’t very assertive so I suggested that we try bondage and spanking. I wanted to show him that I totally trusted him and wanted him to dominate me because I liked the way it felt. He flourished in his new role learning new ways to restrain me and keep me quiet and well behaved. And of course as teenagers we didn’t have access to adult toys so we utilized everyday objects like belts, neckties, rope, towels and duct tape.
How you best describe yourself? Your choices are: Dominant, Submissive, Switch or Fuzzy Rainbow Unicorn. Please explain your choice.
Submissive. I pretty much run the show around here so every once in awhile I want my guy to shove a ball gag in my mouth, bend me over for a good spanking and take advantage of me.
Do you feel that your desire for bondage is more physical or emotional? (please elaborate)
Physical, for sure. I love the way it feels to be completely at the mercy of a trusted partner. My body is super sensitive and responds very well.
What does BDSM mean to you: is it a lifestyle, a diversion, or something else?
It’s not a lifestyle but to be completely honest sometimes I go so long without having sex (which I enjoy) that vanilla sex simply won’t do.
What was your best bondage experience?
When my boyfriend blindfolded me, gagged me and tied me to all four corners of the bed and proceeded to make the most amazing love to me complete with an orgasm.
What do you feel is most important about the experience of bondage?
That you’re both into it.
What is the best advice you would give to someone just starting out with BDSM?
Do it with a trusted partner. Talk about your likes and dislikes, establish a safe word and what you’re willing or not willing to do.
What is your favorite gear, toy or lingerie item from Sub-Shop.com and why?
My penis gag. Not only does it keep me quiet during play but also gives me the feeling of having two penises at the same time.
What is the one sensual fantasy you haven’t lived out yet that you are excited to try?
A threesome would be really nice.
How do you feel about the return of the 90‘sMullet Hair Style? Are you for or against and why?
Well, I personally don’t care for it but I bet if you’re really into the guy then his hair won’t matter.
Is there anything else you would like to share with us such as advice, thoughts or goofy knock-knock jokes? We are all ears and ball gags.
Never stop playing. And be a generous lover with an open heart as well as an open mind. If your lover comes to you with something that they really wanna try, be open to it and keep in mind that it probably took a lot of courage to bring it up in the first place. Don’t make them feel ashamed about it. (Unless it’s illegal of course)
