When it comes to the female orgasm, sometimes it can be quite hard to determine what makes the female body go crazy with pleasure. Women simply have a harder time reaching orgasms than men. Nonetheless, there is a bright side in all of this: women can get multiple or several orgasms in a very short amount of time. As a matter of fact, women are kind of built in a way that makes them capable of having orgasm after orgasm…So I guess nature has a way of balancing itself out? How many orgasms you need to feel satisfied will depend entirely up to you. You decide. Will you pursue having multiple orgasms?
Let’s assume you want to explore that capacity for multiple orgasms, let’s take a look at several things you can do to improve your chances of getting them.
Set your body and mind to it
The first thing you need to be aware of is, be very open-minded. This means opening up to the possibility of you having several orgasms in one intimate session. This is important because otherwise, your body and mind may tune out sexually making it harder for you to achieve those orgasms. So just tell yourself you will climax several times and try to be as relaxed as possible.
Do some Kegels
The next thing you can do is some Kegel exercises. You will need strong pelvic floor muscles to get your best orgasms ever. Kegel exercises help you improve that capacity and as a result, you will be more in control of your body. These exercises are super simple to do. Contract your pelvic muscles as if you were holding the need to pee for a few seconds, then release. You need to repeat the entire process repeatedly at least ten times a day.
Foreplay is very important!
Another important thing to consider is foreplay. You are aware of how important foreplay is in sex and if you want to have multiple orgasms oral sex should be considered. The easiest way the majority of women achieve multiple orgasms is through some clitoral stimulation from oral sex. Have your partner go down on you first, so it will be easier for you to come with some vaginal stimulation. One good trick you can do is to make your partner orally stimulate your vagina for a few minutes, then stopping for a few seconds and starting all over again. This is a good way for your body to get used to the fact that another strong sensation will follow the one that you are already having.
Take a break
For some women, taking a break after an orgasm is important because the whole body can be very sensitive. But for some women, having another orgasm right away is the best thing because the body will quickly remember the previous orgasm. It will be able to get there the second time faster. In order to know in what case, you belong try this: if after the sexual experience you are basically in a coma and cannot handle touching, that is it for the day. However, if you can handle being touched after an orgasm, then, keep going! Anyway, remember to keep touching your partner and vice versa so you don’t completely loose the sensation.
Ideal sex positions
And finally, we turn to the ideal position. During penetration you always want to keep your clitoris stimulated, so doggy style or you on top are good options for you. You can begin by coming first with some clitoral stimulation, and when that area is super sensitive you can move on to stimulating the vagina internally (doggy style and reverse cowgirl are good choices). Of course, don’t forget your other body parts like your nipples or breasts. Women tend to have more orgasms if several body parts are being stimulated at the same time.
