Sex is great enough in any way that leads to an orgasm, you might think, but there are tricks to make it even better! The more intense a sexual encounter becomes, the better, and it is in your power to make it as exciting as possible if you keep an open mind and try new things to spice up your relationship. But there are so many things out there that you can try and it can easily become overwhelming if you are used to a certain sexual routine that might be hard to break for both you and your partner. Here are some things that you can change about your sex life to make it more interesting and satisfying!
1. Play with your senses
Sex is about stimulation, in all its forms. Not only stimulating the intimate areas of your body but also stimulating other senses. Impact play can be a great way to spice things up a little for both you and your lover. Grab a nice paddle or flogger and try some spanking or whipping as a form of foreplay. You can also use a pair of nipple clamps and other sex toys while you perform such a stimulation session on your partner. There is a chance you both might discover new fetishes and sexual pleasures by engaging into new practices like these ones. When we stimulate our senses, we are discovering new sides of our own sexuality and we develop our intimate life so much more than when we have a sexual routine.
2. Use dirty talk
Dirty talk or, as experts like to call it, verbal stimulation, is a great way to excite your partner and yourself without making any effort. The more you know your partner the more you will be able to choose the right words to turn them on and make them join you in the sexual adventure that you want. If you are a beginner at this kind of fetish you can start simple by describing all the naughty things that you would like to do to each other. However, if you are an expert you know that the kinkier the talk gets, the higher the level of sexual excitement gets. Some people, who particularly enjoy this fetish, can even reach an intense climax by simply using their words. There is an amazing power in our language and no reason why we shouldn’t use it.
3. Watch erotic videos with your partner
Erotic videos can become addictive but when they are enjoyed in moderation they can bring quite an improvement to your sex life. If you enjoy some hot scenes with your partner you might get inspired to try new things next time you are intimate with each other. You can stimulate each other while watching such an erotic video and see how you feel about following the example. Erotic videos work great as a source for mutual masturbation as well so there is no limit to how many benefits you can get from watching them. The only thing that you need to pay attention to is to not let these videos replace the real sex life instead of making it better. This is a risk that everyone is facing when they enjoy them too much.
By making these three simple changes, your sex life will definitely reach a new level of intensity and your partner will be pleased to join you in this sexual adventure. But improving your sexual encounters is a gradual experience so don’t stop after these first changes. To get from a routine level to one of high pleasure and intensity you need to spice things up constantly and make sure that you discover new ways to satisfy the deepest fantasies that you have as a couple. Talk with your partner and share your sexual desire in order to find new ways to reach them.
