Sometimes you just want him to make the first move and this can be really fun too. Then again, you might simply want a man to flirt with you. It can improve your day. Moreover, flirting with someone can definitely make your day more fun! Knowing how to make men flirt with you can be an asset in your life. But how do you do this? Is it possible to learn how? I have some tips to help increase your chances of a man making the first move to flirt with you.
Chances are you believe the key to attracting men is dressing to the nines in your Sunday best. But for some reason, men tend to approach women who are dressed down most of the time. It may be they get less intimidated when they see you in casual attire. Regardless of why, it would appear they really like women who dress in this manner. Similarly you may think no one will want to come within a ten mile radius of you after you just left the gym, but it is the opposite. You should know men love women in workout gear. So, the next time you go out to get some coffee completely dressed down, you could be in for a pleasant surprise when someone approaches you.
You also have a better chance of getting a man’s attention when you are by yourself. It is because men tend to feel less intimidated to flirt with a woman who is alone. When you are with a group or with someone else, it can be harder for a man to muster up the courage to flirt with you or ask you out.
You may also need to exude an easy to talk to vibe; if you appear unapproachable then no one will want to get close to you because they think it will bother you. But you don’t want to look too eager for a man to approach you. If you do then this strategy could backfire on you. So, when you are in the cafeteria it is best to resist the temptation to tell every man you bump into, ‘You should try the hot chocolate’ or ask every single guy you see for some help with your bags. Act cool and look around you. Check out the area, smile and make eye contact with someone you like. But don’t overdo it. Being relaxed and looking nice are the way to go.
Men also need to feel comfortable enough to flirt with you. In this case, the place has a lot to do with it. They don’t like crowded spaces or empty places. A man would likely approach a woman if there are a few people around, but not too many or if you are the only two people around. This could explain why juice joints, small coffee shops and bookstores tend to be ideal places for flirting.
You also need to be aware of your movements. Bear in mind, you have lesser chances of someone approaching you if you move too much. If you are only there for a few seconds or a minute then you are not giving them enough time to get close. Likewise, if you are constantly shifting places then they will not be able to catch you. If possible, stay in the same place for a while. Doing so gives the guy time to notice you and work up some courage to go your way.
The last tip has to do with expectations. If you go out with the mindset, ‘I am going to meet someone,’ then you are setting yourself for something. However, expectations can be harmful and leave you disappointed when it does not happen. So, it is best if you are simply open to anything without any kind of expectations. Remember, you are more likely to be approached when you think less about it, in particular when you are simply having fun and doing your own thing. So, the less you think about it, the better.
