While having an orgasm can be a very exciting and intense experience, it is also a subjective one and it is felt by each individual differently. Also, men tend to experience orgasms different than women when it comes to their intensity and even duration. But what about not knowing if you are having an orgasm? Well, this is possible too even if it is not considered the norm. An orgasm should be so exciting and hot that you should definitely feel it but there is room for some doubt. So, let’s see in what circumstances you might not realize that you actually reached climax!
1. Intense sexual stimulation
Sexual stimulation is part of any sexual encounter, especially during foreplay. It is the moment when we use sex toys and accessories to tease each other such as nipple clamps, vibrators or different anal plugs. Men get intensively stimulated by prostate toys as well and they can actually experience a different type of sexual pleasure by indulging in using these toys. Sometimes, this kind of sexual stimulation can get more exciting than we plan since our bodies are full of surprises and never cease to amaze us especially when it comes to our intimate life. When the sexual stimulation gets out of hands, orgasm can happen and we can easily mistake them for too much sexual excitement and not realize that we actually reached climax. For men, it might be more obvious when they have an orgasm since it is usually visible but for women it can easily get by unnoticed. So, pay attention to your body and welcome those surprise orgasms that your sexuality decides to engage into when you less expect it!
2. Ironically…multiple orgasms sessions
Multiple orgasms are very hot during any sexual encounter and very popular among couples who want to reach new levels of sexual pleasure and satisfaction. However, when you jump from having one orgasm to trying to reach another, you might miss one or two of those intense moments in between. Especially if you are using an orgasm belt or if you have continuous intercourse. If you and your partner are into BDSM fetishes, multiple orgasms might be a common practice inside your bedroom and, over time, you will get used to enjoying each one of them. But as a beginner, get ready for those awkward moments when you are not sure if you climaxed or not. And don’t be afraid to share your feelings with your partner since they might be mutual.
3. Orgasm control sexual games
Orgasm control games are based on the fact that you are not indulging into climax until your partner decides that you are ready for it or until they finish first. This can help you prolong your excitement and erection if you are a man and keep you wet more if you are a woman. But it can also help you lose control every now and then. When you are not sure if you just had an orgasm or it was only a high point of sexual pleasure, just keep going and wait for the right moment to have an official orgasm when you are allowed. No matter how you look at it, when you are not sure if you had an orgasm you can still be sure of one thing: you definitely reached some serious sexual pleasure and you are on the right path! Your partner will love your struggle when you want to climax but they don’t give you that option!
As you can see, things are not always black and white when it comes to having an orgasm. And the more complex your sexual encounters get the more intense the orgasm will be. It is better to not focus on reaching an orgasm at all and simply engage in passionate sexual scenes that will stimulate both you and your partner and help you develop your sexuality!
