The most common and popular way to achieve an orgasm is by engaging in a hot and intense sexual encounter that implies any form of sexual penetration. Nevertheless, this does not mean that this is the only way to reach such an intense sexual pleasure. As a matter of fact, there are many ways to reach climax for both you and your partner. All you need is a good imagination and an open mind to indulge in most of them. Each couple is different and every person has erogenous zones that can help them reach an orgasm if they are stimulated intensively.
However, if you are used to obtain sexual pleasure only through intercourse you might not be aware of the other multitude of ways that can give you and your partner the climax that you are aiming for.
1. Using sex toys to stimulate you intensively
Sex toys can work great magic when it comes to your sexual stimulation. You can use them on your partner’s body in order to inflict just the right amount of pleasure and pain to reach a new level of carnal satisfaction. The market offers a variety of toys designed specifically for reaching an orgasm such as orgasm belts, penis pumps and electro stimulating devices. But you can also use other toys to stimulate more erogenous areas of your body such as butt plugs, prostate stimulators or nipple clamps. You can also have a sexual encounter with your partner based on different role plays, such as orgasm control or chastity. Such sex scenes can successfully lead any couple to enjoy intense climaxes regardless of their gender or sexual orientation. Your imagination will play an important part into this certain sexual experience. So, don’t be afraid to release your creative skills in order to reach a very exciting climax.
2. Masturbate each other
Mutual masturbation is a great form of foreplay, but it can also be a sexual act in itself. You can masturbate each other using sex toys and accessories or by simply using your bare hands and body parts. Hand jobs and blow jobs tend to be very useful under such circumstances especially because oral sex is one of the most exciting ways to achieve an orgasm. While you get hot with your partner, you can also watch some erotic videos that will inspire both of you and even give you fresh sexual ideas. Make sure to keep the level of intimacy high by taking breaks, passionately kissing each other and add some extra pleasure to your sexual encounter.
If you plan to enjoy mutual masturbation during foreplay, you might be surprised to see how much it can turn on both of you and make you reach an orgasm even if you were not planning to do so. Before you dive into such an erotic scene, set up the atmosphere with a sensual music and even some scented candles to help both of you get into the mood for more naughty things. When you are playing with each other’s intimate parts you can also add some lubricant to increase the sexual stimulations and by providing a more realistic feeling to go along.
3. Doing some dirty talk
The way you talk to each other during a hot session of sexual stimulation can also help you reach an orgasm without even having sexual intercourse. Therefore, dirty talking is so popular amongst couples of all ages, genders and sexual orientations. Dirty talks can also be a great turn on factor, but it becomes more powerful when it is combined with other forms of sexual stimulation. You can say naughty words to each other during oral sex or while you are enjoying the intense vibrations of an orgasm belt. There are even more levels of dirty talk that you can engage in until you reach the level of doing some verbal humiliation.
