Relationships are a bit complicated just as they are, so imagine adding BDSM and long distance to the mix. How can you be with someone when being physical is such as big part of a relationship? Although a bit harder, with some modifications and willpower to make it through, it’s entirely possible…cheer up! Just make sure before you start a long distance relationship with someone, to discuss whether you two are dedicated and willing to give it a go.
Long distance can come in different ways. Is it long distance because one of you lives in another country? Will this be long distance but only for some time because one part has to move? If you’re someone who can’t handle being apart their partner for more than a few weeks, maybe you two should reconsider and have “the talk” about where the relationship is going. Honesty and an open discussion about the expectations you have will be key to making it work.
If you two decided to move forward and try long distance, some things will change. But you must keep in mind how the relationship progresses will depend on your particular relationship, how the submissive and the dominant are and what activities you enjoy. Some hard limits and needs may change when you are long distance, so keep an open mind because this can be a great opportunity to explore new things and activities. Keep in mind chances are you will also be more in touch with each other through texting or instant messaging, so your relationship will probably grow as a result.
The best will be for you to come up with a list of ideas you can try. It will depend on your relationship and tastes, but it can be from playing with somebody else to make regular video calls while you use some for bondage. The important thing will be for you two to be creative and be on the lookout for interesting and new things. Experimenting will probably be the norm until you find what works and what doesn’t work at this new stage of your relationship. As long as both of you are willing to try it, there’s no reason to stop having a wonderful and fulfilling BDSM relationship, this time: the long distance way.
