Sexual satisfaction is not all about sex alone and most couples tend to rely on their sex life and forget other aspects of their relationship which is a common mistake. While sexual stimulations and sexual encounters are the core of a successful intimate relationship and a long term sexual satisfaction, they have to be doubled by other forms of attachment that will help both partners feel connected with each other and committed to maintain a happy and healthy relationship. Chances are that if you find yourself in a long-term relationship, you also developed a certain sexual routine and while this is beneficial for your sex life it can also damage it if it becomes too strict. Here are some tips and tricks that will help you maintain a long-term sexual satisfaction and not fall into the most popular mistakes that lead to harming your intimate relationship!
1. Enjoy new fetishes and fantasies together
As a couple, it is important to be able to grow together on more than one level. Sexuality is just as important as the emotional part but sexuality is sometimes harder to maintain as paradoxical as this may seem to some couples. When sex becomes mechanic and it lacks passion, it is nothing else than a routine that needs to be fulfilled but without any valuable substance. To avoid that try to keep an open mind and experiment with new sex toys and accessories while you are trying out new fetishes and fantasies with your lover. Start by taking the baby steps as this is a gradual experience and it requires constant involvement. Add some nipple clamps to your sex scene to begin with and then work your
complexity up to using anal plugs and even orgasm belts. You can play bondage games and even use a paddle to discipline your lover every now and then. All these will transform your sex life from a dull and predictable one into an amazing and exciting one!
2. Have aftercare sessions
Aftercare sessions are extremely important especially if you are a BDSM enthusiast and you like some extreme sexual practices like suspension bondage or edge play sexual scenes. As hot as such sexual encounters might be for both you and your lover, they might have an effect on the emotional side of your relationship and this is something that you should consider at all times. Make sure to save some moments at the end of the sex scene to cuddle with your lover and express your feelings toward them. Show them affection and make sure that they understand just how much you cherish them and not just sexually appreciate them. This will increase your sexual satisfaction and allow you to have more successful sexual scenes in the future because they will all be built on a base of trust and mutual appreciation. Plus, your lover will be able to make the difference
between sexual fetishes and deep emotional feelings, in an easier way which can only bring you benefits and help your relationship grow in the right direction.
3. Stay intimately connected with your partner
As we were saying at the beginning of the article, sexual satisfaction, especially the long-term kind that you are aiming for is not about sexual encounters alone as important as these may be for a couple. You need to entertain a high level of intimacy between you and your partner throughout your day and make sure that you keep the connection that you have growing stronger. Sometimes, this is easy to achieve if you make small gestures and pay attention to details. Kiss each other randomly, declare your feelings and make plans together as a team. Such habits build a couple stronger over time and increase the intimacy at many levels, including the sexual one. You can also play with each other without any sexual purpose and rediscover your bodies over and over again in order to become more comfortable with each other. Such a behavior will only maintain the happy and healthy relationship that you have now and the sexual satisfaction ill come as a natural effect of all this.
