Collaring ceremony is performed with a special collar instead of a wedding ring. It is a special collar of special significance chosen by the Master to present to his slave. The collar should be whatever you feel most comfortable with and has significance to you both.
Introduction to Collaring Ceremonies
The collaring ceremony in BDSM is performed with a special collar instead of a wedding ring. It is a special collar of special significance chosen by the Master to present to his slave. The collar should be whatever you feel most comfortable with and has significance to you both. This simple procedure does not have any legal significance, although some couples make it their wedding vows and exchange them with similar significance as in Western culture (sometimes even more). This is also an emotional step for many couples who may believe that they are binding themselves together for life by following these traditional steps, which can be taken seriously or humorously depending on your lifestyle.
What Are Some Things to Keep in Mind When Planning for Your Ceremony?
It is a good idea to discuss your collaring ceremony with your Dominant before you begin planning it. It is also a good idea to set aside some time alone with him or her to decide upon what collar you would like. If he/she is giving you a collar, then some things should be decided ahead of time so that you do not have any last-minute surprises, such as who will purchase it, where he/she will purchase it, etc. One thing that I suggest is making sure that there are no gems or stones on your collar unless they are fixed in place so they will not come loose later.
Welcoming Guests
A collaring ceremony is a type of BDSM scene that will take place between you, your slave/submissive, and other people you have invited to witness it. It's best to invite close friends who will support both of you or those who are already involved in BDSM themselves so they understand what is going on. Having more than two witnesses for such an intimate event can become overwhelming.
Who Participates in A Collaring Ceremony?
The collaring ceremony is a big day for every Master/slave couple, so it makes sense that they would want their closest friends to be there. The guests who should be invited to your collaring ceremony are close family members, friends, or mentors who have played a special role in your life. The degree of closeness you share with these people will determine whether or not they attend your collaring ceremony.
Items For the Collaring Ceremony
Here are a few items you will need for your ceremony: A collar, if you do not have one you may create your own using rope or chain that has special significance to both of you. Something to write with, a pen is nice but a pencil also works. And some paper in case there is no table or flat surface available. Photos are great but something personal to each of you such as a favorite piece of jewelry would be good also. And an additional person present during your ceremony would make it more meaningful as well. Having another witness during your ceremony gives it meaning as well as having someone help out with taking pictures. You might even choose to invite others who are important in your lives so they can be there along with those closest to you if you wish.
