If you are a dominant or a mistress, you know that dominating and disciplining your partner can be very exciting. You can engage in a dominating strategy as part of a variety of sex scenes and fetishes as well as a complex fantasy that you might have. And the intensity to which you take such a sexual encounter is totally up to you and depends on the level of tolerance that your lover has when it comes to such experiences.
1. Verbal humiliation can be really hot
You can use as much verbal humiliation as you want in order to discipline your submissive male. Have them wear a mouth gag to increase the feeling of obedience and control them even more. You can dress yourself in a sexy lingerie in order to offer them a visual stimulation as well. If you look so sexy, you will make them love every verbal humiliation word that comes out of your pretty mouth and you could have a sex scene like this every time you want a quick excitement and discipline without engaging in a complex session of intercourse. It might be wise to establish before hand if there are any limits when it comes to verbal humiliation. Most submissive males understand that this is part of a fetish and they don’t have any limits because the rougher you get, the better they feel. But some guys might not feel comfortable with certain words or sentences which is why it is important to check that ahead of time so you don’t end up with an awkward situation in your hands.
2. Explore the foot fetish realm
If your lover has a foot fetish, all you need to control them and excite them at the same time are your feet. Be careful to no let them enjoy your feet too much because after all you want to discipline them not to pamper them. But you can play with your feet or use them to touch all over your lover’s body without allowing them to indulge in an orgasm. The more you try this type of sex scene, the better you will get at it so don’t feel discouraged if you don’t master it right from the start because experience plays an important role in this sexual encounter. You can use your feet to play with their penis as well so your imagination can really go a long way when it comes to this type of fetish! And the sky is the limit of what you can d using your bare feet. You can try being naked so your lover will feel even more teased. They will simply not be able to resist you for too long!
3. Give them a good oral sex
Oral sex can go a long ways when you are playing with your submissive lover. You can skip any other sex toys and accessories and simply tease your submissive lover with a good session of oral sex. But if you want to just tease them, stop right when you feel that they are close to reach an orgasm. You can
do this as many times as you want and allow them to have an orgasm when you want, not when they feel like it. So, use your soft lips to please your lover in such a way that it is going to be almost impossible for them to fight the urge to engage in a hot orgasm! You can use your hands as well to play with other parts of their body and you will be amazed of just how excited your little sexual strategy will get them!
As you can see, your body can be the most exciting tool to excite your submissive lover and dominate them at the same time. You don’t really need sex toys to create the kind of sex scene that you want, especially if you go for a teasing strategy. But of course not needing the sex toys doesn’t mean that you can’t still use them. For instance you can have your submissive male wear a butt plug or a prostate stimulator to increase its excitement during any type of sex scene that you are planning to engage in. After all you should feel free to add as many sex toys and accessories as you want to develop the type of sexual pleasure you want. Use your imagination as well and you will experience some intense sexual encounters that will empower not only your intimate life but your entire relationship. This will help you also to stay away from the sexual routine that can damage a long term relationship very fast if you allow it to.
