In the BDSM community, the main roles that count the most are the dominant one and the submissive one, because around them, all the other aspects of the sexual encounters gravitate successfully and in a variety of possibilities. Age, gender and sexual orientation are simple details that don’t matter when it comes to having a great BDSM experience but there are certain advantages when it comes to having a mature slave and that is what we are going to talk about in this article.
1. Your slave will be willing to try more things
If you want a slave that will understand even the most specific sexual fantasies and fetishes that you want to fulfil, a mature one is all you need to reach more sexual pleasure. Indulging in a sexual encounter with a mature slave will also help you gain more sexual experience. BDSM scenes like Edge play will no longer be a taboo subject if your slave is not a beginner anymore. They will be more than happy to enjoy extreme forms of bondage with you and they will be ready to try new sexual experiences and even look forward to do so. Not to mention the intense satisfaction that you will have to dominate a mature submissive partner to the extreme of your imagination! It can be an intense and addictive feeling.
2. They will be familiar with more sex toys and accessories
A mature slave will be better informed when it comes to sex toys and accessories and that will give both of you more sexual freedom during your BDSM scenes. It is very important for the slave to be familiar with the variety of stimulating devices such as electro-stimulating toys, nipple clamps and other forms of nipple stimulation, butt plugs, and different types of dildos and vibrators, that way they will receive the treatment that their dominant decides for them with a lot of professionalism and sexual satisfaction. The way reacts to a sexual stimulation or during a BDSM scene, regardless to its theme, is the key of a successful sexual encounter.
3. They will be more experienced
A good slave is important for the success of any BDSM scene and the more they know about sexual practices the better both of you will feel. All you need to do as a dominant is to be turned on by your own desire of controlling your slave and put aside the other thoughts while you are doing so. But an experienced slave will take care of the quality of the BDSM scene by knowing exactly how to react to your kind of sexual stimulation. Plus, you can learn a lot from an experienced slave and even adapt to their needs as you play along so that way you two can grow together and develop a stronger relationship. So, it is very important to use your slave’s experience in the advantage of the entire sexual scene and try to adapt to it the best way you can. You can learn a lot from your mature slave if you don’t skip the negotiation phase of your BDSM encounter. That will help you know each other’s limits and you will see what they are willing to perform and indulge in during your BDSM scene and what is considered to be off limits.
The connection between a dominant and a slave is a very intense one and it has more aspects than just the sexual one. A great BDSM relationship has to be based on a daily level of trust and confidence at the same time. Love and an emotional connection and attachment are also very important as well as communication. If you keep an open communication with your partner, chances are you will learn a lot more things from each other and your relationship will reach better sexual levels in no time!