Having a mature dominant has obvious advantages but also some of them that are not so in the view and those we are going to refer to in this article. But the basic concept of having a dominant partner in any BDSM scene is to have someone else in charge of what is going on and in control of your body and sexuality to the level that both of you are comfortable with! If your dominant partner is a mature one, this attitude of taking control and taking the responsibility for the sexual encounter and both yours and his sexual pleasure and satisfaction, will come more natural than if they are just starting in the BDSM field. So let’s look what other advantages you might have from being in a BDSM relationship with a mature dominant partner, others than this one.
1. They will lead you the right way
A mature and experienced dominant will not just take control of the BDSM scene but will also lead your steps into the BDSM world, which is even more important than the success of one single sexual encounter. They will make sure to expose you to the sexual fetishes and fantasies that you are ready for and increase the intensity of your sexual encounters from there. All this will help you become a better sexual partner but also a more knowledgeable individual and that will help you develop on so many levels! You can learn everything from your dominant, from the basic spanking and whipping to edge play and suspension bondage and your sexual life will be so much more interesting as time goes by!
2. They will introduce you to new sex toys and accessories
Another significant advantage of having a mature dominant is the fact that they will introduce you to a variety of new toys and accessories and show you how to enjoy them the best. You will discover nipple clamps, if you didn’t already, and electro-stimulating devices and different forms of bondage that you didn’t know they existed and all that by listening to your experienced dominant and enjoying your sexual connection and encounters.
3. They will offer you more sexual pleasure
Having a sexual encounter with a mature dominant is that much more fulfilling than you would ever expect it to be. Your dominant will know exactly what to do and when to do it to get the best reaction out of you for their own pleasure. But getting the best reaction out of you also means stimulating you in the best way possible which will give you a lot of sexual pleasure and satisfaction! They will also control your orgasms and either make you have more than you thought you could handle or, denying you the right to enjoy an orgasm just so you can have an even better one later on during the same BDSM scene. By the end of the sexual encounter both of you will have the sexual satisfaction that you were aiming for.
With that being said, if you are looking for a new dominant don’t limit your searches only among the potential partners from you age box. If you get the chance to get involved with a mature dominant, even if it is for one single experience, give yourself that chance and enjoy all the benefits from it. It will make you be a more confident person over time and it will help you enjoy your sex life a lot more if you are guided the right way into the BDSM amazing world of fantasies and fetishes. And no one can do that better than an experienced dominant. Chances are that if you two have a great chemistry from the beginning you might develop an intense and romantic relationship that can last for years. Because yes, BDSM relationships have their share of romance too.