If your man is not feeling so sexual at a certain moment, you shouldn’t take it personally. More often than not, you are not to blame for his lack of interest in your sex life. External factors might have a direct impact not only on his sexual desire, but on his sexual performance as well. Of course, you can try to increase his sex drive by using different sex toys and accessories. You can even dive into new fetishes and role plays. But if none of these work, chances are, his lack of sexual interest is caused by other factors. Here are some of the most common issues known to have a negative impact on a man’s sex life and, eventually, on your entire relationship!
1. Too much alcohol
Every time a guy drinks alcohol more frequently than considered as social drinking, his liver function is greatly affected. This means the liver will start converting the masculine hormone testosterone to estrogen, which in time will affect his sex drive. Consequently, it will also lead to erectile dysfunction. This means getting him drunk to have sex is usually a bad idea because you will obtain the opposite effect. It will not matter how sexy your lingerie is or how exciting those new sex toys you just bought are. Moreover, alcohol has a direct effect on the quality of the sperm. This means if you are planning to have a baby, too much alcohol consumption is a no-no!
2. Stress
Guys tend to work an average of 10 to 12 hours a day, which makes them fatigued and extremely stressed. As you probably have heard, stress also lowers the testosterone levels in their body and leads to a lower sex drive as well. Put the kinky toys aside, the nipple clamps, butt plugs and prostate stimulators and replace them with an erotic massage to help him relax. Also, if your partner is more of the submissive type some forms of bondage without sexual intercourse may be a great idea for intense foreplay to get his mind off from his daily stressors.
3. Aging
Unfortunately, a man’s sex drive decreases over time. While this is a gradual event, it is also very common. We are not talking about very old men; the changes tend to happen as they get old. The signs and symptoms can be observed as early as when a man reaches 30 years of age. After their 30’s, men tend to be interested in other aspects of life other than sex. But if this is the case, you can boost his sex drive by stimulating his libido, desires and curiosity at the same time. Try adding new sex toys to your intimate moments, penis pump or male chastity devices. Electro stimulating devices work just as well, as long as they don’t become part of your sexual routine. Mature men will react more positively to new ways of sexual stimulation and will be curious as well to discover new levels of their sexual pleasure. You just need to be willing to set up the scene for them.
4. Medical conditions
Sometimes the root of the problem could be a medical condition. Certain diseases can have a direct impact on his sex drive. A variety of medical issues could be responsible for his impotence such as problems with his testicles, an inflammation of his prostate gland, Diabetes, etc. Such unfortunate occurrences can happen at a very young age as well. On top of the fact they are inconvenient, they also affect his sexual desire. More often, guys don’t feel comfortable sharing such information with you, but if you suspect your man has a medical condition, then you should suggest he seeks professional help as soon as possible. Such disorders can get worst. If left untreated it could lead to irreversible complications. The good news is, most can be easily treated if they are diagnosed early.
