Who doesn’t love foreplay? I mean, if you love pleasure and fun things you probably love foreplay too. Even though there is some sort of greater importance of foreplay for women, men also need it as it can be can beneficial for them too. If you only have a limited repertoire during foreplay with your man, let’s resolve this right now with more hot ideas *wink*
1. Arouse him by stripping
Just as anyone loves sex, men also love stripteases. This is a perfect opportunity to remind your partner how sexy you can be when you really set your mind to it. There is something incredibly seductive to watch a woman undress herself. To begin, you may want to lift your skirt a little bit so he can see your stockings. You can remove them by running your hands along your thighs and calves. Continue by undoing every button of your dress then finish by unclasping your bra and letting the straps fall over your shoulders. It will drive him crazy if you put on a show.
2. Tease him in an indirect manner
If you are looking for something a bit faster, you can always send him a text massage or give him a call to let him know what you want to do. He will love something like, “I want to kiss you all over tonight” or “I can’t wait to get home and blow you.” It is always a good idea to keep the spark between the two of you burning and this is a cool and easy way to do it. The anticipation for what is coming makes up for great foreplay. Oh, and you can also send him a sexy picture to go with those dirty words *wink*
If your partner has a planner or calendar, don’t let go of this chance: pick a date and write down ‘Have sex at 9.’ You will obviously not tell him anything about it, so when the reminder comes, or he looks up at his schedule he will notice there is something more on his ‘to do list’ wink*
3. Allow him to choose
Another cool thing you can do is to take him with you to a lingerie store and let him pick what he wants you to wear. So, he can take it off later, of course. This is something not many men expect, but would certainly appreciate as the aspect of a sexy surprise is totally there. If you want to go a little more risqué, you can make him go through several toys and pick what he wants for both of you to use. As you can see, this scenario presents several interesting variations.
4. Use your shoes ladies!
Something else a lot of men find really sexy is a pair of heels and feet. If your man is one of them then try playing footsie often. If you are having dinner, run the side of your foot on his calf, all the way to the outside and inside of his leg. Another thing you can do is to take off your shoes completely and put your feet in his lap when you two are sitting down somewhere somewhat private or dark, he will find it super sexy.
On the other hand, you can always do the old routine of coat and heels, without anything underneath. Go out to have dinner and when you are sitting down, casually let him know you are naked under the coat.
5. Make time for yourselves
For those with busy lives and children, it can be a nice little present to simply relax for a night and enjoy each other as a couple. When he least expects it, surprise him by hiring a nanny or by dropping the kids at a family member or a friend so the two of you can have the night all to yourselves. You can let him know with a little note to make things a bit more special.
If going away for a night is too much, then you can bring the romantic ambience to your home. When you are both winding off from the day, fix some drinks and sit right next to him. Chat away and let the conversation flow and if you want, continue with some kissing, touching and possibly lead to sex. The idea is to never lose your connection and spark as a couple!
