Foreplay is one of the most important parts of a sexual encounter. Actually, most women claim it is the most important part of sex. Without proper foreplay, chances are, sex will be less than enjoyable. This is why it’s even more unnerving when a man doesn’t know what to do during this part and just wants to rush forward to penetration. Remember men, women need to be prepared to have good sex! It’s not hard to understand and to be inconsiderate about, really wink*
Keep in mind, it doesn’t matter if this sexual experience is just a quickie, you will still need foreplay to get her there. You need to grasp foreplay as something to prepare you to have sex, but something to initiate sex as well. Sometimes, all a woman needs to feel the desire to have sex is just some foreplay. So you don’t always need to wait until you are almost in the act to participate in some fun activities.
Basically, everything starts with a kiss…Yes, cliché but true. Almost everyone, if not all enjoys kissing (and sometimes kissing doesn’t always have to lead to sex but it is okay, kissing and making out is great.) But my point is, every woman needs to be kissed properly and every day, as southern gentleman, Rhett Butler would say, “If you don’t know what I am talking about, look for the reference you kids.” If you want to please your lady, start with some gentle kisses so you can build the sexual tension to something more extreme and intense, like a make out session. When you two are really into it, move on to kissing and licking her neck. Afterward, move on to the next step.
This is something both men and women love, boobs. Showing attention to the boobs is something everyone enjoys. You can take your pick at showing them some affection with kisses, licks, sucks, touch, blowing air, basically whatever you feel like doing. Breasts and nipples always need a little attention, so don’t forget about them. Just keep in mind to never twist them unless you are specifically asked because breasts and nipples are also super sensitive when it comes to pain. After a while, keep going lower.
The main event, if you can call it, is the vulva. When a woman is aroused and turned on, touching her down there will feel amazing and make her wetter and hotter. You can begin by touching her over her pants or panties, don’t just stick your hand in there. Gently touch and caress her over clothing to make her want more. When she starts to get desperate, you can go below the fabric for some skin-to-skin contact, but once again don’t insert your fingers right away.
Focus on the external area, the whole vulva is incredibly sensitive! Touch and caress everything and when it is time, you can insert one finger and then move on from there. It is always helpful to let her know before you do it; don’t stick anything into a woman before giving notice, please. To be on the safe side, start with one finger and if she craves for more, then do so.
Additionally, you should never forget about your best friend and ally, the clitoris. This bud is basically composed of nerve endings you need to stimulate to get your partner going. As usual, don’t go at it too hard and too fast at first. Start by gently rubbing it and touching it, you can move in circular motions if you feel like it. The more aroused she gets, the more pressure she will need. For this to happen, you need to start gently. Ultimately, always keep in mind a gentleman finishes last and gives their partner at least two orgasms or more. wink*
