While mixing the right amount of pain with an exciting sexual stimulation or intercourse can be quite intense and have positive results for both you and your partner, too much pain is always a sign of an existing problem. If you or your partner experience some intense pain without any apparent reason for it, don’t underestimate or neglect it because it can be something serious. And, in most cases, fixing such a problem is easier than you might assume. Also, is important to not be afraid of sharing your feelings with your lover. Many couples remain silent about such issues and that is because they might be ashamed to talk about them or they don’t want they partners to take it too personal since it is a delicate subject. But this will not get you very far so overcome your fears and fix the issue, so you can both enjoy an intense sexual experience and help your relationship grow.
1. Skipping foreplay
Foreplay is a great part of a successful sexual encounter and you should try not to skip it or underestimate it. Even if you don’t have a lot of time in your hands or you are just planning for a quickie, make sure to stimulate yourself and your partner before engaging in sexual intercourse. When you have a good session of foreplay before sex, you are waking up with senses and getting your body ready for an intense sexual encounter. This will prepare your genitalia to enjoy certain sex toys as well and not feel more pain than pleasure. However, if you skip the foreplay, your girl might not be prepared for the sex scene and you might have some problems too. Anal play in particular is not the easiest sexual practice when there is a lack of stimulation beforehand. And if your lover is not stimulated enough to enjoy that new anal plug that you got for them, the entire sexual scene will be damaged.
2. Medical conditions
Sometimes, sexual pain has nothing to do with sex, as hard as this might seem to believe. There are certain medical conditions that can lead to such a discomfort and if you are aware of them, you can also treat them before the damage becomes too much to bare. Make sure to follow a high level of hygiene to avoid such situations and also visit your doctor regularly in order to get the right treatment for certain conditions that you might be facing. And also, if you experience sexual pain due to a certain medical condition, let your partner know what is going on so that they will not take it personal and consider themselves guilty for it. Most couples develop other issues if they don’t share such information with each other because each one of them is left to believe their own assumptions and this never ends well.
3. Not using the right sex toys
The market offers a wide variety of sex toys and accessories that you can use alone or with your partner to increase your sexual pleasure and satisfaction and reach more intense orgasms every time. But, you also have to make sure to choose those toys that work in your benefit and not against you. No matter how exciting a dildo can look, if it is too big for you, it will not give you the sexual pleasure that you are aiming for. The only sex toys that will not generate any unexpected level of pain are nipple clamps, since those can stimulate your nipples more or less but they can’t actually harm you or your partner. Also, if you are into bondage sex games, it is important to make sure that your partner is comfortable during such an intense sexual practice. Issues can appear easy especially for beginners, if they don’t know what to expect from a bondage session, especially an extreme one.
