Unfortunately, long distance relationships happen nowadays. If you and your partner find yourselves in this position here are some tips and tricks to help you overcome the obstacles and struggles that this type of relationship implies. Since a relationship shouldn’t be based on physical interaction alone, you should always make sure that this physical interaction is replaced with other forms of intimacy. Thanks to modern technology, there are certain ways to overcome the lack of sexual encounters in your life. Keep in mind that the long distance phase can’t last forever because it will add more damage to all aspects of your intimate relationship. Spicing things up in a long distance relationship should be your main goal, especially when you are trying to avoid getting distant. Here are some tips and tricks that will keep your relationship alive even when you can’t be together physically!
1. Have phone sex
Since the phone was invented, couples took advantage of this incredible technology and try to use it in order to have hot and exciting sexual encounters even when they are apart. To have a successful phone sex session, all you need is your sexual arsenal as well as your kinky imagination. Use your creative skills to set up a theme for your sexual encounter, or a type of role play that you would
like to play with your partner. Make sure you get very descriptive if you want to successfully turn them on. Tell them what you’re wearing and what you would like them to be done to you in order to play with your lover’s imagination and discover new levels of your sexual pleasure. Luckily nowadays, phone sex is becoming one of the most popular sexual practices for couples that go through a long distance phase. Make sure you use your favorite dildo, vibrator or orgasm belt when you are talking with your lover. All these sex toys will help you engage in an honest and intense sexual pleasure and your partner will not be able to resist your erotic moans.
2. Send pictures to each other
The good news for long distance relationships is that modern technology facilitates a lot of communication options for you. You can use your laptop or desktop PC to send your partner random pictures or show them what they are missing out on when you masturbate. Be sure to look as natural as possible while you are snapping spontaneous images of yourself. Keeping a sexy attitude will make these pictures a great piece of sexual material for your partner. You can also send them naked pictures of yourself and make sure to encourage them to
do the same. Not only will the distance between the two of you seem smaller, but also your sex life will be highly enriched by this habit. If you happen to buy a new sex toy such as a new pair of nipple clamps, you can send your lover a photo with you wearing them. By doing this they will not only feel like they are a part of your sex life, but also a part of your daily events. And your intimate level will be significantly increased.
3. Share common events of your life
Not all your messages and photos have to be of a sexual nature. As a matter of fact, you should always mix the spicy things with the daily details of your life. Let your partner know how your work day was, or how much you liked the last movie you watched. This will not only have a positive impact on your long distance relationship, but it will also make you feel like you are together again. Remember that the most important aspect of any relationship is the sharing aspect. And when two people share their lives together, that means sharing events, memories, thoughts, feelings and intimacy. It might be wise however to have an hour set up for daily or weekly talks, to make sure you are both free and not stressed by external factors.
