Well I like to switch…. after all, too much of anything is monotonous. Which is how I found bondage to start with. Trying to keep a spark in a long term monogamous relationship requires imagination and willingness from both participants.
Real People Real Bondage - Male Switch
I’m married and I’m 36 years old. By day I am a computer systems administrator. By night I am a musician. Growing up I noticed that when I was watching TV or movies I would always get excited when women were tied up, especially when they were gagged. There was always just something about it that aroused me.
I am in a position of power and control in the finance/accounting profession. My days typically involve making numerous decisions, which affect operations, profit and loss;also, the well being and continued success of the business and people that work there.
My day to day is generally on the plus side. We all have our off days, but on the whole I find life is good. Every day is a celebration and every meal a banquet. I think early into my 30s when I had matured and began a more introspective approach to fulfillment and to myself.
I work for a large engineering firm. Mostly in the office but I get to play around outside for work from time to time. I enjoy fishing, golf, and still play online video games with friends. I was probably 15 or 16 and I can’t pinpoint any exact moment or scenario. Just kind of developed over time.
In Vanillaville, I am a mild-mannered all-American suburbanite. I like to read and write in equal measure, and I spend the balance of my time trying to stay active in general and active,more particularlyin the BDSM community.
I'm a married father of two. I work from home and sometimes travel for my job. It was at a young age, around 13, when I first realized I was into bondage. I know it is a little cliché but I really liked Lynda Carter as Wonder Woman and always wanted to be caught in her lasso.
A little about myself then, all right. I'm a happily married man of some 17 years. I'm all of 45 years of age, with a wife five years my senior. We chose not to have children, but instead have professional careers that have spanned decades.
Well, not sure I can mention names, but...since you asked...In my early twenties I worked at a store and had to put magazines on display rack. These were mainstream magazines but the back cover of one caught my eye as it featured a pretty actress named Cathy Lee Crosby in some light bondage themed photo shoot.
I am waiting for my retirement and now am on borrowed time. The meaning of that is I have passed my retirement date and am still working; some day soon I will quit. I am approaching retirement age and I feel and act like 50.
Sometime at the age of 13 when I saw a PG-13 movie with a women bound and gagged with her arms tied overhead with beautiful shaved underarms but not naked. At the age of 13 I was very excited by that image and as a teenager I always looked for movies on TV that recreated this first image.
I work in the IT field. I play video games (WOW, DOOM, FALLOUT4), I go to the movies, go over to friends houses and play card/board games (Magic the Gathering, Cards against humanity).
Sometime at the age of 13 when I saw a PG-13 movie with a women bound and gagged with her arms tied overhead with beautiful shaved underarms but not naked. At the age of 13 I was very excited by that image and as a teenager I always looked for movies on TV that recreated this first image.
Hi, my name is Tom and most importantly I'm a geek. I'm a fan of video games, tabletop RPGs, geeky t-shirts, science fiction/fantasy, etc. If I had time, money, and space I'd definitely be into cosplaying. My music tastes are all over the place from classical music, video game soundtracks, metal, to Russian pop music.
I design protection schemes for high voltage substations by day, and am a gamer by night. I enjoy fishing, SCUBA diving, and going on adventures with my Darling on the weekends. Just your average nerdy gamer guy who loves being in or on water.
I was a young teen-ager and would self bondage to masturbate. I am a switch. I enjoy being dominant and also submissive. Probably more sub. For me, the desire for bondage is physical, emotional, mental, spiritual and seems to be what I think about most of the time.
I’m an Information Technology Security Professional working in the Financial Services Industry. Probably around the age of twelve. I found myself strangely interested in bondage scenes in movie and TV. In my younger years I experimented with self-bondage.
I work and teach in information security. Beyond all of the studying and random hacking that entails, I read and listen to trashy fiction, watch mostly bad television shows, annoy the cat, and of course tease my Owner.
I’m a thirty-year-old philosophy undergraduate who’ll be looking into Ph.D. programs next year. Right now I just took time off work to concentrate on reading, writing, and studying for the GRE, so I’ve been easing into that self-employed routine of scheduling my activities out and assuring there’s balance between work time, time spent with my lovely Fiancée, and time spent on solo cool down.
Both my wife and I are switches, and we're true switches. There are aspects of both roles that we enjoy, though lately, I think she's becoming more and more dominant.
I'm a hardworking 25 year old male with a larger build (6'1", 300lbs). My everyday life is kind of boring atm, as I am currently in-between jobs. I spend most of my free time in-between playing video games (yeah, typical guy, I know. lol), working on woodworking projects, and working on crafting projects.
I remember at a very early age of being drawn to damsel in distress images and playing various tie up games with childhood friends long before puberty set in.
We are both nerds to the n-th degree. When we aren't working at our nerd based computer jobs, we are playing video games or re-watching Marvel/Disney movies. We have quiet suburban lives with a matching set of cats, bikes, cars and trendy neighborhood restaurants.