A woman’s vagina can appear very complex for a man, especially if he is less experienced. It is very different from a penis and it requires more knowledge and skill to be satisfied. Even so, men would never quit exploring it. Some may have discovered the erogenous zones of a woman by experience, while others try to research the best sexual techniques to help them satisfy their ladies.
When it comes to lesbian couples, things tend to be simpler, though. Since both women are well aware of their intimate areas, they know how to explore them in the best way possible. But for guys, things can be a little more complicated and challenging. Here are some tips and tricks to help you understand more about her vagina and the way it works.
1. The clitoris is not just one point
Many men, even the experienced ones, consider a woman’s clitoris to be a visible point they can feel and see. But this is only the top of the iceberg! In reality, a woman’s clitoris is all over her vagina. Besides the visible tip of the clitoris, there is the internal one which spreads far more than you can imagine. Underneath the visible clitoris, there are many exciting layers to be explored.
These layers are also part of the clitoris even if you don’t see them. If you want to stimulate her vagina, you can’t just focus on the tip of the clitoris alone. You have to play with the entire area and see what turns her on the most. Some women are more sensitive than others and they all have their preferences when it comes to satisfying their sexual needs. If she doesn’t guide you in a specific way, you might need some time to discover all the ways you could explore her vagina.
2. Her wetness depends on the time of the month
Many guys think if their girl is wet, she’s also aroused. This is probably the biggest misconception when it comes to the vagina. Even if women can get wet during sexual stimulation, more often than not, their natural wetness is strongly related to hormonal changes during her monthly cycle. In the middle of the cycle, she’s more likely to have wet and slippery secretions. Contrary, by the end of her cycle she is probably going to be dry or have a thick discharge. This is the reason why sometimes a woman is super wet, even without being sexually excited at all.
Her discharge is usually not related to the sexual stimulation you are trying to perform on her. If you have sex often, pay attention to the signs, you will learn the distinct phases of her natural discharge. Also, you will be able to make the difference between this kind of wetness and a sign of sexual stimulation.
3. It can be stimulated in numerous ways
Many men are surprised to find out it takes more effort to give her an orgasm. Luckily, there are many ways you can stimulate your girl before and during sexual intercourse. Don’t expect her to be excited from sexual penetration alone. Try using a dildo or an orgasm belt during foreplay or during anal sex if you want to give her an intense session of sexual pleasure. You may want to try using a variable speed vibrator to further simulate her clitoris. Turning it up a notch every so often can increase her level of pleasure. But if you don’t have any of these sex toys, try using your bare hands to play with her clitoris during your sexual encounter. Instead of vibrating toys, the warmth of your hands will create a more heartfelt and intimate feeling for her.
