Being a woman is one of the greatest things in life, even though it may not always feel like so. Sometimes, it may feel being feminine is a bad thing, well, not really though. Being a woman means a lot of things depending on what you feel. Just because you are a woman it doesn’t mean you have to be so in a certain way. The important part is to get in touch with what you feel is your own female energy.
Generally, I think I can safely say, all women want to feel free to do anything they wish to do. They also want to feel beautiful, feel loved and to have relationships to fulfill them and make them happy. Discovering your own femininity is part of the process of being a woman. Getting in touch with your own womanly side can be (and should be) a very rewarding experience. Part of this entire process is accepting yourself, respecting yourself, and more importantly, loving yourself for who you are.
To get in touch with your womanly side, you can begin by renovating your bedroom into your special place. This is important because your bedroom should be your private sanctuary. Your bedroom should be the place where you rest. It is also where you give and receive pleasure. It is worth it to convert it into some sort of secret place. You can do this in any way you like; for example, you can put some flowers, your favorite lighting and your choice candles or scents.
Since we are into flowers, they always tend to be a wonderful addition to any space. Ideally, it should be given to you, but if it is not possible then simply go and get them yourself! If you love to receive flowers, don’t be afraid to mention this to your partner because a lot of times, we tend to be ashamed of asking for the things we want. This shouldn’t be the case. Simply remind them how much you love them or be more direct and bold.
Feeling pampered and taken cared of is a huge part of being at ease with yourself as well. It is of outmost importance for you to take some time to relax and decompress from the reality. A nice way to do this is by always being present in the moment. This allows you to enjoy life more, plus, it can lessen your anxiety and stress. Being present means, paying attention to what is happening now and not cluttering your mind with other things outside a particular moment. You can also go for a walk, take a nice and long bath or shower, have a glass of wine, go to the hair salon, etc.
A good idea on how to embrace your feminine side is to take yourself out on a date every once in a while. You should take this date seriously as if you were making an appointment with someone else. Bailing out is not an option. In this date, you can do whatever you feel like doing like go out and eat on your own, get some coffee, go to the theater, to the museum, to the movies or take some time to do something on your own (like working on an ability) or even reading a book. The only rule is you have to do it on your own!
Lastly, always look in the mirror and appreciate your body. Ideally, you need to stand naked in front of a mirror and take notice of all the little things about you. Become aware of every stretch mark, wrinkle, mole, and freckle. Love everything you see because they are your own and they belong to you. It is very easy to find faults in your body, even so, embrace yourself wholly and love whatever makes you who you are! Be a woman who radiates confidence and dauntless spectacle of feminity!
