BDSM enthusiasts are imaginative and always ready to explore any occasion for its sexual potential. These qualities when combined with the options available on the market nowadays can offer numerous ways to reach an orgasm aside from the traditional physical sexual intercourse. In fact, the only limitations are what we choose to impose on ourselves. Even if you are alone or with a partner, intercourse is just one way to achieve an intense sexual encounter. You should know it is possible to have a great climax without even having actual sex. Here are some ways how you can do it.
1. Stimulators
Stimulators are great for any couple to have in their bedroom, regardless of their gender or sexual orientation. These sex devices work well when it comes to starting things during foreplay. But they do an even better job when it comes to taking care of the entire sexual encounter. You can find everything from nipple stimulators to prostate stimulators and even electro stimulating devices you can use with your partner or by yourself, if you don’t happen to be in a relationship. When used correctly and with ample time, a stimulator will show you the way to sexual orgasm! No doubts about it. If you don’t believe us, try it for yourself!
2. Dirty talk
You can use dirty talk whenever you want. It is a great way to get both of you to reach an intense orgasm. Enjoy a bit of dirty talk with your partner over the phone. Likewise you can consider adding it to your bondage session. Imagine telling your partner how naughty they have been while you spank them with their favourite paddle or while you are using a whip or a flogger. Remember, it is up to you to find the best situation. When it is used correctly, dirty talk can help fill in what is missing in your sexual encounters to get both of you into the world of multiple climaxes, one after another. It might take some time to know what kind of dirty talk turns both of you on. Some couples are into verbal humiliation while others like to be descriptive. However way you and your partner choose to do it, rest assured the journey to finding out will be something both of you will appreciate and welcome as you achieve sexual satisfaction without actual intercourse.
3. Fantasies
Sharing your fantasies with your partner can be a real turn on. Plus, when you start talking about what goes on in your dirty mind, it might encourage your partner to do the same. So, the two of you could end up having an interesting conversation. Best of all, both of you have a great chance of experiencing some intense orgasms because of it. You can even play with yourself while sharing your fantasies. On the other hand, you can just imagine them and have inner orgasms. Did you know those based on imagination can be more intense because things can get uncontrollably hotter in your head where there are no boundaries unlike in real life when your partner might have some misgivings about it. Even so, let your imagination run wild and be vocal about your fantasies so you can share and enjoy them together!
These are some of the ways you can reach sexual satisfaction and orgasms without having actual physical intercourse. Feel free to discover other ways to do it while exploring each other’s bodies in many different ways. It is a guarantee your sex life will never be boring again. Imagination and control as well as the exchange of power are the important tools you need when aiming for an orgasm. It will take some time to master and would require a lot of work, but doing so will be well worth it! But once you are familiar with having orgasms this way then even your sexual intercourse will improve because you know your body better now!
