When you first discover the fascinating world of sexual pleasures, chances are it would overwhelm you. For some, it could even be too complex to enjoy especially if it happens when you are young and have no knowledge of it beforehand. No doubt, your first orgasm and sexual experience would be significant for you. However, it will not define your entire sexual future and experiences. In fact, the first time you experience the pleasure of having an orgasm is only your first step in a long journey. Achieving a high level of sexual satisfaction can happen in many ways. Going through these as a beginner would help you discover your sexuality. Here are some useful ideas to make your journey of sexual discovery and excitement easy. After hearing your friends’ stories about their sexual experiences as well as watching all the videos and movies showing steamy scenes of people having orgasms, it’s finally your turn!
1. Masturbate
The good thing about masturbation is you don’t need a partner to experience your first orgasm. So, you can take your time as you masturbate. Doing so allows you to discover your sexuality and lets you get in touch with your body in the most intimate and erotic ways. Before you have an intense orgasm, you need to be aware of what things bring you the most pleasure and how to stimulate your erogenous zones. It might take some time to identify these extremely sensitive areas of your body. But the more experience you have, the better you will be at stimulating yourself. It is also a good thing the market offers a wide range of sex toys and accessories you can play with during your first masturbation session. The basic sex tools are dildos, vibrators, different kinds of anal plugs and even orgasm belts. Take your time while playing with each one so you can discover what kind of pleasure each item can give you. Moreover, you can figure out how to control it while you masturbate. You should know the path to achieving an orgasm is up to you and your imagination, likewise, your ability to stimulate your own body.
2. No expectations
One of the common mistakes you can make as a beginner is to put too much pressure on yourself by anticipating the intense feelings of an orgasm. Doing so can cause your anxiety to build up. You become frustrated by the whole matter. Not to worry, this can happen even to the most experienced and sexually active people at any age. But be careful because if it happens more than once, then it could cause serious damage to your sex life over time. Avoid falling into this trap to have a better chance of reaching your climax and enjoying it even more. Remember to be patient and try to enjoy every step of your sexual adventure as you discover what makes you feel good and is more intense. Focus on every aspect of the sexual stimulation phase and do not worry about the outcome. The orgasm will come once you reach a moment of intense excitement and sexual pleasure to push you over the top.
3. Enjoy it with your partner
Another way to reach an orgasm, which many prefer, is to have it during intercourse with your partner. But before you take things to this level you should make sure both of you are ready for such an intimate and intense experience. Keeping your sexual arsenal to a minimum at the start is best. In this way, you learn to enjoy each other’s body and your partner’s natural actions would also be a turn on. Hence, you don’t have to rely on a sex toy to discover your sexuality and how to deal with it as a couple. Keep this up for the first few times of your encounters. The experience is bound to increase the level of intimacy between you and your partner. Moreover, help both of you carve a satisfactory sexual path together.
