The BDSM community has a lot of sex toys and accessories that can be used creatively in just as many fetishes and fantasies! The list goes on and on and the ideas keep coming the more you check these amazing sex tools out. But what to do if you are not into BDSM but still get tempted by the toys that you see? You might wonder if there is a way to still enjoy these sex toys and accessories while you don’t engage in the BDSM fetishes that they might be intended for. And here are some examples that will make your sex life so much better without necessarily changing your sexual style!
1. Blindfold your lover
Blindfolding your partner can be extremely intense during your sexual encounters and also when you are sexually stimulating them. You can use other toys such as nipple clamps, butt plugs or electro stimulating devices to make the experience even more pleasant for both of you. And you don’t have to be a dominant to use all these sex toys and accessories and enjoy such a hot sex scene with your lover. Just as your partner doesn’t need to be a submissive either to enjoy being stimulated in such a way. When you blindfold your lover, they will experience a level of sexual encounter that will stimulate their senses in a new way. They will not be able to see what is coming to them and they will feel so much more exposed which is why such a sex scene is usually so much more intense than a regular one. You can play with a blindfold or a mask to make one of your date nights even more special and to break your sexual routine that can be so dangerous for a relationship.
2. Have multiple orgasms
Who doesn’t want to enjoy multiple orgasms during the same sexual encounters? And your partner will be more than thankful for such a session. To stimulate them in such an intense way, you can use an orgasm belt and induce an orgasm after another until they can’t take it anymore. And you will love every moment of it. Your lover can give you a nice blowjob while they are wearing the orgasm belt and that way return the orgasm for the benefit of both of you. And feel free to use your imagination and creative skills to add as many forms of sexual stimulation as you want You can even discover new fetishes and sexual fantasies while you enjoy such sex toys with your partner.
3. Wear latex outfits
Latex outfits are incredibly hot and many couples consider them to be a huge turn on for a romantic date night that can turn into a kinky sexual encounter. You can wear sexy skirts, dresses and even have sexy bras and panties to turn your lover one instantly. They will not be able to resist when they see you being so hot and passionate. If you are into certain sexual games you can also pick latex outfits that will suit your fantasies that way the entire scene will be as complex as possible. And not only BDSM practitioners wear latex sexy outfits. As a matter of facts, there are many sexual games that can use a sexy lingerie and outfit to spice things up. Especially if you want to get your partner’s attention!
Even if the BDSM community is so well developed and can offer a variety of roleplays and fetishes that you can indulge in with your partner, there is no reason to not use the sex toys and accessories offered by this community in different ways. You can have a romantic evening and incorporate sex toys and accessories into it to spice up the excitement and sexual energy. This will also make you have a more exciting orgasm and appreciate your lover even more than before!