Our sexual experiences and desires are not separate from the rest of our life. As a matter aspect they are tightly connected with many other aspects of our existence, including our personality. Specialists studied the connection between individuals’ sexuality and their personality for decades and they were able to establish some conclusions that might amaze you and also reveal aspects of yourself that you didn’t know you possessed.
Creative people with an artistic side tend to be more sexually open to new experiences
The artist in you might find sexual ways to express themselves as well and even if the connection between your creative side and your sexuality might not be so obvious, that doesn’t mean it isn’t there. People with a develop artistic side in their personality tend to be more willing to try out new sexual fetishes and fantasies and even sex toys and accessories. So, if you find yourself turned on and curios when you see a new pair of nipple clamps, or a new orgasm belt or even a new electro stimulating device, this kind of curiosity might very well come from the bottom of your personality. If you recognize yourself in this category, you are one of the lucky people who experience a sexual freedom that will help you develop your sexuality and also have a positive impact on your relationship because your partner will be more than happy to join you in new sexual adventures every time you feel up for it. And you might even develop an entire sexual scene inside your mind just by seeing a new sex toy or accessory due to your unlimited and artistic imagination.
A lack of control over your life may translate into a variety of dominant fetishes
While not all dominants might experience this lack of control in their daily life, some of them do and there is a tight connection between such a lack of control and their sexual behavior. If you like bondage games and you prefer to always be in charge in bed, even diving into edge play scenes every now and then, this can come from a personal lack of satisfaction, control or power in other aspects of your existence. And there is nothing wrong with liking to be a dominant, as a matter of fast this is one of the hottest fetishes that people indulge in. But it is important to realize where such sexual desires and preferences come from so you can use them to improve other sides of your life and also get to know and develop your personality along the way. Meanwhile, enjoy the dominant sexual games and make sure you reach plenty of intense orgasms during your sexual encounters!
A disconnection with your partner might lead to rougher sexual intercourse
Are you into punishing sexual encounters? Do you prefer sexual disciplining methods and even impact play by using some fancy spanking paddles, whips or floggers? A sign of such sexual preferences might be a lack of intimate connection with your partner. And while you shouldn’t stop practicing such sexual fetishes and fantasies, you should work on your intimate level with your lover and see if you can make it even better than it was before. Chances are that your partner will be thankful for your interest and empathy level regarding their emotions as well. And to keep a balance between your rough sexual encounters which can be extremely hot as well, try having a session of aftercare every now and then to establish some balance between you and your partner and assure them of your deep feelings and appreciations. This will change a lot on the long run and it will help you enjoy your extreme sexual encounters in a more healthier way for the benefit of both you and your lover. Other than that, you shouldn’t change your sexual preferences, you should just use them to remodel other aspects of your life!
