Role-playing is one of the most popular activities when it comes to BDSM. It can’t be practiced in about one million different ways; the limits of role-playing are basically between the creativity and the resources…and you can even go around those sometimes.
It is a very fun thing to do and a great way to overcome shyness if you or your partner are a bit nervous. There is nothing like letting go of your responsibilities for a while, indulge in your wildest fantasies and pretend you are someone else. Just don’t forget to fully commit to this; no matter what scenario you choose, the key will be to fully believe it, prepare accordingly and have the right outfit, attitude or anything else you may need.
An easy and fun way to get into this is to prepare a little kit for your partner while he or she is away. Ideally you would have discussed this at some point if you are not regular players; if you are regulars this can be a fun surprise. Ideally you just need the house empty for a few hours; but you can also do this in just the bedroom.
Here is the gist: while your partner is out, running errands for instance, grab a bag and place some items you want to use. You can place some handcuffs, a blindfold and/or gag and put a little note saying they need to strip naked and put on all the equipment in the bag; you will approach them when they are done. Just leave the bag right at the door of whatever room you want to play.
A very common fantasy out there is pony play. Your partner can be the “pony” and you can play with him or her. This can get as elaborate as you wish; you can perform a veterinary exam, checking their teeth, mouth, ears, genital, feet, etc. Or you can teach them some new techniques for a “show”. You can make them perform for you, walking faster or slower in circles, jumping over obstacles, or whatever you like. You will need a crop to guide them, just like a regular horse rider would…and they will need a bit gag, a rope for the reins and a tail, if you wish so wink*
If you want to combine a submissive/stripper scenario, this one is for you: The submissive partner is a dancer at a nightclub and the other partner is a lucky customer that won a special prize. The prize will be to use the stripper in whatever way he or she likes; the stripper must obey to all the customer’s commands because who knows what may happen if they don’t? They will probably get fired or something worse…Just make sure the stripper has the right attire to convincingly play the character.
On the other hand, if what you are looking is a mix of historical/classic assault-innocent person, you can try the pirate scene. In this case, one of you will come barging on the house (or bedroom) as a pirate ravaging a town (don’t forget the eye patch wink*) while the innocent partner will be minding their own business. The pirate will grab the victim and he or she will struggle, of course.
The pirate will rip all the victim’s clothes (just make sure to wear something you are not particularly fond of and that can be easily ripped) and will throw them in the floor, bed or will pin them to the wall. The pirate will hold the victim’s wrists; maybe they need to be tied if they keep struggling? And will explain in detail all the things they are going to do the poor and innocent villager….
