Dirty talk can be highly exciting during sexual encounters, especially if you know how to use it to increase the sexual energy between you and your partner! However, there are several levels of dirty talk you can use to reach more intense and exciting orgasms. It is a good idea to talk to your partner beforehand to understand where they stand when it comes to dirty talk. This is to avoid anyone becoming offended when things get hot. So, let’s see what the most intense levels of dirty talk in bed are plus you and your partner can make the most out of it.
1. Dirty talk without sexual stimulation
Dirty talk during a sexual encounter doesn’t always have to involve sexual stimulation or intercourse. Indeed, most of the time, dirty talk itself is a turn on. This allows you to use naughty words throughout the day and you don’t have to wait until you and your partner get into the bedroom. If you are new to this, try teasing your partner with naughty words around the house to see how they react. If they like it, you might be on to an intense and exciting fetish to prevent your relationship from falling into a boring sexual routine.
2. Dirty talk and sexual stimulation but without intercourse
As both of you have discovered the power of using naughty words in the bedroom, you are now ready to combine it with some sexual stimulation. You can use your favorite sex toys and accessories such as your dildo, vibrator, orgasm belt, chastity devices or nipple clamps. Stimulate your partner without aiming for actual sexual intercourse! This will help you discover new levels of your sexuality. It’s also a great way to develop new and intense sexual fantasies along the way. You can even use more sexually stimulating devices according to your imagination and creative skills.
3. Dirty talk during intercourse
When you are past the stage of foreplay, then sexual penetration is the best way to reach an intense orgasm. You can have a sex scene based on a role play theme, or some bondage style you know both of you will enjoy. Gather your entire sexual arsenal, set up the right atmosphere in your bedroom and add some naughty words to the entire scene if you want to achieve sexual pleasure and satisfaction. You can use dirty talk in a more aggressive way; this fetish is known as verbal humiliation. Verbal humiliation is one of the more popular practices among BDSM couples and it can lead to an intense orgasm for both you and your partner. If you are feeling uninspired or have a hard time trying this with your lover, you can start by trying to talk about other sexual adventures missing in your life and your current relationship. This will leave out the pressure usually accompanying personal statements between couples.
Dirty talk as a sexual fantasy or fetish has to be a gradual experience for any couple to fully appreciate all of it. We all have naughty thoughts in our minds and secret desires, which seem to be spontaneous during every sexual encounter. However, most of us don’t feel comfortable enough with our own sexuality to express such thoughts and desires out loud. But sex is the only activity in your life without any limits. So, keeping those naughty thoughts to yourself will only damage your sexual relationship in the long run. Don’t back down or let the awkwardness stand in the way of you and your fantasies. Your lover will be more than happy to reply to your dirtiness. Use the incredible power of verbally stimulating your partner to explore all sides of your sexual personality to have a positive impact on your relationship!
