Your Ultimate Guides to Bondage for Beginners

You might feel it is time to make a change in your personal life and relationship. It could be because you are not satisfied or you can’t identify with yourself in the life you have or the one you share with your partner now.

Sexual accessories can completely change a sex scene for the better, if you choose them correctly. Here’s how such accessories can give a new flavour to your sex life and even strengthen up your intimate relationship with your lover!

After hearing your friends’ stories about their sexual experiences as well as watching all the videos and movies showing steamy scenes of people having orgasms, it’s finally your turn!

The BDSM community is one of the most complex communities worldwide. Here are some of the most obvious signs to pay attention to if you want to know just how much you would enjoy a BDSM sexual encounter.

First time sexual encounters can sometimes be awkward. The uneasiness can happen when you do not know each other very well. If this is the case, then chances are you are not sure what to expect of the sex scene.

Getting into bondage can be intimidating, especially if you’ve never really experimented with sex. Don’t worry – it can actually be really rewarding and exhilarating. Especially with the right toys.

When you are first starting out it pays very well to listen carefully when people talk about their role orientation. Communication is a two-way street and nurturing a dialog will give you a much better idea of how they see themselves and their interests.

I know I’ve probably mentioned this about one hundred times, but BDSM can come in any way you like. BDSM related activities can be as kinky or as vanilla as you like.

So, you have decided to try out BDSM after all those years of reading about it on the internet. Well, you have made the right decision. In the world of BDSM, you are in for a lot.

If you are starting on the BDSM scene, there are some terms and definitions you may not understand completely. And that is fine, we were all novice at some point in our lives (some longer than others, though), wink*

Top drop, sub drop. These are terms used to describe some of the feelings experienced after a BDSM scene. You hear a lot about sub drop but not so much about top drop.

We all have our own secret fantasies, buried deep down inside our mind. We all have that desire we keep hidden from the world. But why? What are we afraid of? Are we afraid that we will be judged for our desire?

There are three basic principles in BDSM community - Safe, Sane and Consensual (SSC). All participants in a BDSM play must agree to these three principles of guidance and relationship activities in order to avoid any undesired situation.

Hi Autumn! Love your site! I have a few questions. I am engaged to the greatest man in the world and we have recently had fun exploring our new sexuality together! I am very lucky that although we are taking it slow, we are both having fun! I have an issue about loud sex – we live in an old house that was converted into apartments.

Just getting into bondage? Congratulations! It’s a fantastic adventure! One that I hope never ends! *g* Here are a few tips on how to make your new journey a little more fun!

Leatherette is a great idea and extreme fun, especially for couples who travel back and forth between jobs, homes, and vacations. You’ll never have to worry if you leave your product behind.

Never put gag tape over your mouth as a gag when you have a cold. *g* Don’t always do as you're told – sometimes the punishments can be quite delicious! Sex is fun!

Gags are used to silence a much active submissive during bondage sessions…or to mute a talkative partner. They exist in several types, but probably the most common ones are the good ol’ ball gags. They also come in various forms, so don’t think for a second they are “a one size fits all” (what actually is like that, at the end?).

Once you are feeling adventurous and finally decide to take the big plunge… towards crossdressing, you may feel you are not quite sure where to start or where to go from there or how to exactly apply make up or… *insert a million questions here*.

Introducing the idea of bondage and BDSM to your partner can be a bit nerve wracking. Whether is a new partner with whom you want to share your lifestyle or an old one that you want to get interested in this newfound passion of yours, we can all agree is not the easiest thing in the world.

An interest in BDSM can happen overnight or can be brewing for quite some time. But it’s important to know what kind of interest you have exactly. To begin with, keep in mind there is no “right way” to practice BDSM, basically it’s whatever you and your partner enjoy and what you guys make of it.

Relationships are all about communication. And sex is the ultimate intimate communication a couple can have. Men tend to think that women withhold sex as some kind of punishment, but I assure you it's not.

1. Money cannot buy happiness, but it’s more comfortable to cry in a BMW with heated seats than on a bicycle in the rain. 2. Forgive your enemy, but remember the a##hole’s name. 3. If you help someone when they’re in trouble, they will remember you when they’re in trouble again. But you also made a friend for life.

Hi Autumn! Love your site! I have a few questions. I am engaged to the greatest man in the world and we have recently had fun exploring our new sexuality together! I am very lucky that although we are taking it slow, we are both having fun! I have an issue about loud sex--we live in an old house that was converted into apartments.

Regardless of being Dom/me or sub, the scene that is set up for a session will play an important role in enhancing the experience. Maybe the best way to think of it in terms of scene is that BDSM is a form of performance, an art.

Pleasing Master is such a big part of a sub role—every action, big or small, can help to contribute to the stimulation and eroticism of experience as a whole. From the way you glance up at Master with a certain look in your eyes to knowing when you need some guidance.

Bondage tape is like the gateway to the entire bondage sex experience. As an avid BDSM submissive, I am very fond of the idea and practice of bondage. Those who want a quick and subtle introduction into the idea often opt for bondage tape.

I always find it funny to see the reactions I get when I discuss the rules of a BDSM relationship. There are those that appear shocked that something as raw and raunchy as BDSM could have rules. There are others that think I mean things like what to eat and how to dress.

There's nothing I love more than a good chat about bondage sex. Well, maybe a little role play of some bondage sex with my lover. But other than that, nothing better.