Talk About Sex and Relationships

With Valentine’s Day right around the corner, you should probably start thinking about what your plans for the day will be. You may be planning a special dinner date or maybe you are planning to cook them a lovely dinner at home.

Everything you've read about men in women's magazines is bullshit. (And most of what you've read in them just in general, from what I understand.)

If you are looking to initiate some humiliation training, there are some things you need to keep in mind before you begin. You should obviously have a discussion with your partner/slave because as you know, communication is key in all relationships.

Who doesn’t want to be better at sex? I think we can all agree is a subject of outmost importance in a person’s life; what’s more, it’s one of those things where you are constantly learning new things and having fun learning them.

Coming out as a cross dresser to your partner can be both an exciting and terrifying moment at the same time. Whatever your specific case is, there is one thing that is true no matter the situation: the relationship dynamics will change.

With relationships, especially new ones, there are lots of things to think about—what should I wear, when do I introduce my new partner to my friends, when will I meet their parents…how should I introduce them to my favorite sex toys (that’s right, I have more than a few favorites), you know, the usual.

Ah, the joys of parenthood that no one really talks about. The sleepless nights, the year of shirts with white spit up marks on them (I tried to make them a fashion statement but for some reason it never really caught on with Vogue or Glamour), the mind numbing cries for attention and food in the night.

As some of your out there know, having a sex life with the kids running all around the house is hard enough, much less trying to squeeze in some special "play time".

I was greeted with a happy surprise the other morning when I logged on to my computer. Lady Gaga is openly talking about her relationship with her boyfriend in more interesting terms.

Men certainly are wonderful. But if you have lived with one long enough, you also know they can be quite a pain in a more kissable part of your body, if you know what I mean, giggles*. The good news is you can train them to revert from doing those things you are not happy about.

Those into BDSM often want to go out together, but they feel they can’t continue the role playing experience in public. That is not true. It is possible to take your dom/sub relationship out into the real world.

Long distance relationships are hard. Sometimes it can seem like keeping it together is near impossible. The hardest part of any long distance pairing is the intimacy that can sometimes be lacking when you are separated by state, or sometimes country, borders.

Fantasies are fun. You get to close your eyes, or not, and imagine everything you ever want to try and experience in the world. It’s really no different than wanting to be an astronaut. Except that with a willing partner you have a chance to fulfill your fantasies.

When you are looking for a new partner in a BDSM relationship, it can work differently than the average couple getting together. In a typical world, the male and female (or any combination of the two) will meet, find themselves attracted and begin dating.

Some will be angered at the title. They will assume that the theory is that if your husband has an affair it is entirely your fault. That is not what I am saying. However, it is not always entirely his either.

Whoever coined the phrase that men are easy has never spent three days trying to get one to carry out garbage. Men are hard-headed and stubborn is what men are.

Let's face it folks. Not every sexual experience you have is going to blow you out of the water and leave you drooling for days to come. With work, home, kids and life to tend to we women tend to rush things and move on down the to-do list.

As a woman I can attest to the fact that we do not put nearly as much emphasis on the size of a penis as the guys do. Somehow they believe that touting how large they are is the guaranteed way to make us want to experience it.

There was once a time when you defined your relationship status in one of three ways. You were single, dating or married. There was no in between and there certainly was no uncertainty. If you were with someone, you knew it. Oh how much simpler life seemed back then.

I could start by saying that if you want to set the mood for a man, simply say hello. Made you laugh, didn’t I? No, it’s really not that simple to entice a man. Unless you are at the bar and he’s a few drinks in. But, overall men are easy.

Nothing is more agonizing and frustrating than being sexually stimulated and losing out on the chance to satisfy it. Don’t deny it ladies. You know what I mean. Our bodies aren’t designed to just forget about it and move on. Sure, we will survive.

Ladies we have a gut instinct. You know what I’m talking about. That nagging feeling in the pit of your stomach that tells you something is just not right. Sometimes it works in our favor and dances as we realize things are great.

Bondage should always be consensual. That's a given, right? If your partner is not there and having fun with you, it's not going to be enjoyable. Besides, we believe that a healthy and happy bondage relationship is much more than just consensual, it's loving, open and most of all caring.