BDSM enthusiasts experience a lot of benefits once they dive into the amazing world of BDSM practices and fetishes but they are not all sexual benefits. Sometimes, the best effect that a BDSM sexual encounter can have is on your daily intimate relationship with your lover and not many sexual practices can help you improve that so significantly.
There are a lot of different practices and BDSM fetishes that you can try and experience, some that you will enjoy more than others, but bottom line is that they all work great for getting you closer to your partner after you share a BDSM scene together. The most intense the sexual encounter is, the bigger the positive impact should be. And the first and most valuable benefit that a good BDSM relationship will have is the increased level of trust between you and your partner. After you just had an edge play scene with your lover, which involved some serious bondage like suspension style of bondage and some nipple clamps used along with a big dildo, or after you tried some wax play on your submissive, you can count on the fact that you are much more trusted than before such a scene. It takes a lot of trust for your submissive to give up all their control and let you tie them down with a rope or a harness while you have free access to their body and can do whatever your heart desires to them. In these
sort of moments they will rely on your love, they will trust you more than anyone eels in the world and they will, literally, put their life in your hands which of course will give you enormous satisfaction but also a very high level of responsibility. You will be responsible for their wellbeing but also for their sexual satisfaction and their needs and, as much as you love to be in charge as a dominant, this might be a lot to take care of so you will get better at it in time. Similarly, your relationship will improve over time the more BDSM scenes that you share together because the level of trust stays even after the sexual encounter is over and if you know how to balance things out with a nice session of aftercare you are set for success. BDSM is not all about obedience and dominance or bondage styles and punishment sessions. It is about feelings and desires and it is very important to connect with your partner at this intimate level if you want your BDSM sexual encounters to work for the best of your relationship and not just feel your sexual energy. The keys to a healthy relationship are a high level of trust and a great communication and these are two elements that can be reached through BDSM sexual scenes that release your body and mind and help you rediscover each other every time you have an intimate moment. Sex should never be just sex, it should be a way to connect to each other and a way to grow together, sexually, emotionally and physically.
So next time you set up a BDSM scene with your partner don’t be afraid to suggest even the most intense fetishes and fantasies and don’t refrain your sexual energy from experiencing as much as possible. The only aspect that you need to consider while you are experiencing new BDSM scenes, is the main rule of the BDSM community: safe, sane and consensual! As long as both of you are comfortable with what is about to happen there is no need to refrain yourself from trying new things that will have a great impact on your relationship in the end and will make you appreciate and trust each other even more. Get the rope out and let’s have some fun, baby!
