If you found your soulmate and have spent more than a couple of years together, your sexual life might fall into an unsatisfying routine that can damage your entire love story. A poor quality of sexual experiences can develop serious issues for a couple, such as frustration and having sexual affairs with other people. Moreover, if you think that you don’t have the time to invest in your sexual life anymore, think again because a good intimate experience is not based upon time but on a free imagination. You have to pay attention to the obvious signs and do your best to spice things up in the bedroom. After you have identified the cause of your sexual routine, it is time for some intense adventure that will help both you and your partner discover new ways of reaching an orgasm. Here are some ideas that will save you a lot of research and guessing when it comes to surprising your partner in the bedroom!
1. Experiment
You might need to try a lot of new sexual fetishes and fantasies before finding out what completely satisfies you and your lover. But during your sexual experiments, you have to keep an open mind, and then let go of your inhibitions if you want to discover new aspects of your sexuality. You 
might want to consider trying out new sexual toys and accessories such as butt plugs, electro-stimulating devices, and nipples clamps. All these will increase your sexual pleasure and satisfaction and turn your partner on in more than one way. Not to mention there are many fetishes you can try if you would like to play around a little during your sexual encounters. There are roleplays that you can enjoy by simply wearing the right consume in order to make the sex scene as realistic as possible. Be spontaneous and surprise your partner with a new and exciting sexual encounter on your next date night.
2. Have a threesome
Having a guest inside your bedroom is not for all couples, but it might be just what you need. Usually, the partners are afraid to share their intimate life with someone else because they feel certain insecurities and are even afraid to lose each other. However, since a genuine relationship 
is not based on these feelings, the best thing you can do is to overcome your insecurities and give this experience a try. The first decision you have to make is what kind of threesome you want to have. You can share your bedroom with another man or woman based on your sexual preferences after you talk things through with your long-term partner. It’s better to find a guest who’s not a complete stranger; that way, you can rely on valuable aspects such as safety, trust, and good communication. During your threesome, you might come across new sexual practices that you didn’t try before, and you should use them to develop your own sexuality and reach new levels of pleasure and satisfaction. However, don’t forget to use protection when you have sexual encounters with a new partner in order to avoid unfortunate consequences.
3. Share your fantasies
One of the reasons why married couples tend to grow apart when it comes to their sexual life is because they don’t stay in touch with each other’s fantasies and fetishes. A marriage is a long-term contract, and people tend to change along the years and discover new levels of their sexuality, which they are afraid to share with their spouse. If you keep your new fantasies to yourself, you are damaging your marriage without having such an intention. Therefore, don’t be afraid to tell your partner that you really want to try new experiences such as anal sex or a different type of role play that involves costumes and accessories in order to make the experience more realistic. Being open with your spouse will show them just how much they mean to you and will make them feel more appreciated by including them in your fantasies.
