Stimulating your lover is an important part of every sexual encounter. As a matter of fact, mutual stimulation is the key to a successful intimate relationship. There are many things you can do to sexually stimulate your partner.
Sometimes it can be tricky to decide which sexual stimulation style is best for you, your partner and the sexual scene you plan to experience. Not to worry, here are some useful aspects to consider when you want to turn your partner on and get them ready to dive into an intense BDSM scene with you.
1. Verbal stimulation
Verbal stimulation is a great turn on and can get things to an intense level very fast, especially if you know exactly what your partner wants to hear. BDSM enthusiasts are big fans of verbal stimulation and erotic humiliation, which is a higher level of the casual dirty talk you might be used to.
Use the power of your voice to describe sexual acts you would like to experience but also to use it to increase the intensity of your sexual encounter. If you and your partner are familiar with BDSM practices, using rougher verbal humiliation which might involve name calling and kinky words might be a great turn on for both of you.
2. Use different sexual toys
Sexual toys and accessories are great assets when you want to induce certain pleasures to your lover. According to your partner’s gender and sexual orientation, you can find just the right tool to stimulate them and make them lose control over their body for your intense benefit. If you are the dominant type, you might want to make you submissive partner wear a nice butt plug with a crystal tip.
It will also stimulate you visually every time you get a peek at it. Nipple clamps are great tools as well, especially if your partner is a woman, because women get easily turned on when their nipples are stimulated along with other parts of their body. You can try bondage styles and even electro-stimulating devices when you want to get your partner to experience intense sexual pleasure under your powerful control.
Whatever stimulating method you choose to use, make sure your submissive is comfortable with it so both of you will enjoy the sexual experience. Moreover, use it to improve your relationship all together.
3. Use your hands to create pleasure
Toys are not the only accessories you can use when you plan to stimulate your lover. Sometimes all you need are your hands and your lips to make your partner lose their mind and make them ask or even beg for more. The power of touch is unbelievable, especially when it is mixed with the right words whispered in their ear and some kisses placed randomly over their hot body.
Pay them compliments to give them the impression they have the best body in the entire world and you want to enjoy every part of it. This will not only increase the level of sexual energy but will also have a positive impact on their confidence. When your partner is confident in themselves, they will have so much more to offer you between the sheets!
Of course, an important part of any sexual stimulation session is your imagination and how far are you willing to go to entertain your lover and get them to the sexual point you need them to be for an intense sexual encounter. The ultimate level of sexual stimulation is oral sex. You can try it every time you are looking for a sure and fast result. Not many people can resist a well done session of oral stimulation and more often than not, such a session ends in an orgasm so make sure you give it a try as often as you can!
