Real People Real Bondage - Male Switch

Meet Jeffrey

Please tell us a little bit about yourself – How would you describe your everyday vanilla life?

I am just the average person. Go to work, work out, and spend time with my wife. Nothing crazy honestly. 

When did you first realize you were into bondage?

I guess I first realized my interest with my wife. We didn’t need anything to spice stuff up but it just felt really fun to try things. 

How you best describe yourself? Your choices are: Dominant, Submissive, Switch or FuzzyRainbow Unicorn. Please explain your choice.

Mainly dominant but sometimes switch to submissive. It depends on both our moods. 

Do you feel that your desire for bondage is more physical or emotional? (please elaborate)

I’m going to say emotional. There is just a deep connection and trust you have to have with your partner to lose control. 

What does BDSM mean to you: is it a lifestyle, a diversion, or something else?

I wouldn’t say it’s a lifestyle but we aren’t going backwards either. It’s a great stress relief and escape from all the daily stressors for us. 

Can you describe your first bondage experience?

The classic example I think. Hand restraints and a ball gag. 

What was your best bondage experience?

Minus details.... collar, muzzle gag, restraints, pvc dress for her. 

What and who turns you on?

My wife always and just her looks alone. 

Have you ever been so loud having sex that housemates/neighbors commented or complained?

No but I’m not sure how. Gags have helped haha. 

Have you ever brought your partner to orgasm using only your hands?

All the time. 

What is the weirdest thing that ever made you horny?

Not sure. What’s weird and normal anyways?  Subjectivity. 

What is the fastest way to ever make you horny?

See above to best bondage experience haha

What is the best advice you would give to someone just starting out with BDSM?

Don’t rush into it. Take your time and discuss and figure out you and your partners interests and limits. Be safe with each other and only participate with a trustworthy person. Communication is the key. 

What is your favorite gear, toy or lingerie item from Sub-Shop.com and why?

All of it. But seriously though, muzzle and bit gags are great. Awesome hoods too.

Is there anything else you would like to share with us such as advice, thoughts or more knock-knock jokes? We are all ears and ball gags.

This is a great place to shop that doesn’t destroy your bank account and have always been very easy to use. Try new things, live life, and be safe out in the world.
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