Please tell us a little bit about yourself – How would you describe your everyday vanilla life?
I'm a rancher and legal and permitted cannabis grower/ cultivator.
When did you first realize you were into bondage?
I'm not sure exactly but it was probably a few years after I graduated from university. My gf at the time was European and introduced me to the scene she was very open minded and a bit kinky but I thought if it a more on the healthy side than kinky.
How you best describe yourself? Your choices are: Dominant, Submissive, Switch or FuzzyRainbow Unicorn. Please explain your choice.
I'm more of a submissive than dominant but can take the role as a switch as well. I like to give up my power and let my partner take charge and make all of the decisions "in the bedroom. "
Do you feel that your desire for bondage is more physical or emotional? (please elaborate)
Definitely more physical. Looking back as a kid I rarely was spanked or got in trouble I was a good kid and probably received less than 10 spankings my entire childhood. Now I'm begging for it and get extremely aroused when I'm in bondage and getting flogged.
What does BDSM mean to you: is it a lifestyle, a diversion, or something else?
I wouldn't say that BDSM is a lifestyle....yet or a diversion, I think it's a way to change things up a bit and to make things fun and interesting. Femdom clothing and outfits are extremely sexy to me and having "her" take control has always been a turn-on for me.
What is one song you’d like to have sex to?
LOL, honestly I I remember the last time I had music playing while “playing”
Can you describe your first bondage experience?
It was in Dallas, I met a Mistress online and we agreed to meet at The Sanctuary, an play space for adults who were into the BDSM and alternative life style. The warehouse was furnished with dozens of different types dungeon furniture and accessories. We met in the parking lot as after we checked in my mistress had me strip, placed me in chastity and led me around the place with leash and collar. The experience was surreal but after a few minutes of embarrassment I found my comfort zone and soon was in my element. My mistress secured me to various devices and would use different floggers on me while curious and interested onlookers watched. That was an evening I will never forget.
What do you feel is most important about the experience of bondage?
Learning to trust your partner who has total control over you (and your orgasms). Learning to give up responsibility and taking what's given too you.
What is the best advice you would give to someone just starting out with BDSM?
Start slow and explore your boundaries, having a safe word is a must.
What is your favorite gear, toy or lingerie item from Sub-Shop.com and why?
Male chastity device. When I'm in it I want to be out of it, when I'm out of it I want it to be locked into it. I have 3 different kinds and like them all equally. The key holder has amazing power over me and can force me to do things I wouldn't normally wouldn't do. It's a great training tool and I highly recommend using one.
If your life was a movie, what songs would be on the soundtrack?
Electronic dance music, it's my favorite. I love going to raves and electronic music festivals. The annual Burning Man event is one I attend regularly.
