Sometimes you may feel you want to explore new things with your partner in bed. It may be you something you have always wanted to try with them or just something you may have never heard of but once you do, you may be inclined to do it wink*.
So, there are several ways you can slowly introduce some spice into your love life. As you may imagine, it’s better to start slow, no matter what you want to experiment with. Take it easy, enjoy it and adapt it to yours and your partner needs.
One of the easiest ways to spice things up is to get a set of cuffs to use on your partner… or have them use it on you wink*. As a matter of fact, anything that involves restraints it’s a good idea to start with because it’s not too aggressive and it can make things really different from what you’re used to. And you can find them in different materials, so you have plenty to choose from.
Another really cool thing you can try is to dabble with sensory deprivation. The idea here is to block some senses so the others can get heightened. For instance, using a blindfold will probably make your body and brain focus on your skin and the sensations you are feeling, making up for a very intense experience. Every little touch will feel extremely different and intense because you won’t be able to see what is happening; and you can add little toys like a vibrator, a feather, an ice cube… And the other interesting layer to this practice is not knowing what your partner will do next. The unknown will make things more exciting, trust me wink*. And you can use the blindfold with a pair of earplugs to isolate yourself even more and if you like the idea, you can go all the way with a hood that blocks your primary senses.
You can also add some temperature play with it or just use it on its own. If you are feeling daring, you can use a glass sex toy because they warm or get cold beautifully, changing the experience depending on the temperature you choose from. Something else you can try is some wax play as well. But if you are looking for something a bit less intimidating, you can always try temperature play with some ice cubes. You can run them through your partner’s body or have them melt in your mouth and then run your tongue in certain areas, or kiss them, or….And if you want something warmer you can do the same but instead of an ice cube, have some tea or coffee to warm your mouth a bit.
And lastly, if you want something a bit more extreme, you can always try some anal toys. They can be extremely fun and satisfying in a way you probably haven’t experienced so far, wink*. The only thing to keep in mind is to start small, relax, use plenty of lube and communicate with your partner during the experience.
Let me know what experience you choose and come back to tell me how it was, wink*.
