Before we dive into the root of human kinkiness, is important to understand what it means to be sexually kinky. We seem to use the term kinky randomly nowadays and some of us might lack the basic understand of it. So, sexual kinkiness is being interested in unconventional sexual practices that are particular to your individual preferences and fantasies. In other words, everything that is not so commonly met when it comes to human sexual behavior, is considered to be kinky. Even if, what is common and not it can be a different and complex discussion all together since we are all different beings with different preferences and desires, especially when it comes to our intimate life!
Now, what causes sexual kinkiness can’t be answered in a single word because just as human nature is complex so are the roots of its principles, concepts and sexual fantasies. However, kinkiness is born out of curiosity, among many other factors. We are curious beings and we want to experience as many fantasies and fetishes as possible. This kind of sexual freedom is specific to the BDSM community which has very little limits when it comes to sexual activities and fetishes. Human’s started to get curios about using different sex toys along the history, from the basic dildos and vibrators to the more evolved orgasm belts, nipple clamps or chastity devices. Nowadays we even have electro stimulating devices that can 
stimulate us intensively and generate exciting sexual orgasm. All these toys and accessories are meant to satisfy our deepest sexual fantasies and desires, even if sometimes they are not necessary for our sexual needs. When it comes to having an intense sexual experience, more often than not it can’t happen without one or more sex toys and accessories and along the years people developed fetishes to suit such experiences. Bondage styles and discipline sexual scenes are some of the most popular ones and also very adaptable to a variety of BDSM scenes and sexual encounters. But besides sexual curiosity which defines our human nature to some extent, another root of kinkiness is the desire to conquer new feelings, emotions and partners. We are born to be leaders and we love to be in charge of our own bodies as well as of the bodies of our partners. This is why some people fine their sexual identity as dominants and others as slaves. Slaves like to be controlled by others simply because they want to experience what makes other’s happy and also, because they want to deny their own need of control which turns them on. Not being allowed to control your own sexuality and orgasms can be a very exciting sexual practice and BDSM enthusiasts all over the world indulge in 
such fetishes as often as possible.
Bottom line, sexual kinkiness is the key to our sexual evolution. It encourages human beings to explore their bodies, feelings and sensations to a higher level and reach new sexual satisfactions through this development. We love to be in unique sexual scenes and we are eager to indulge into a bunch of sexual stimulation to see how much pleasure and pain we can take until we can’t control our need to orgasm anymore. The excitement of this sexual attitude keeps us exploring and wondering about new sexual fetishes and fantasies that might be more intense and exciting than what we already experienced and we never know for sure until we give them a try. The winners of these sexual games are the ones who set their limits aside and keep an open mind during sexual intercourse and other different sexual encounters. The more open you are to explore yourself and your partner the more intense your sexual life will be and the more you will love to indulge into new fetishes that will feel your adrenaline need! BDSM has no ending point as it keeps developing constantly based exactly on the human kinkiness that keeps bringing new sexual aspects inside this wide community! So, embrace your sexuality and set your mind and body free to explore every corner of it!
