Most of us are aware of our sexual desires, preferences, fetishes and fantasies and we are aiming to reach them in all our sexual encounters, alone or with our partners. But are there are fantasies that we are not aware of or that might not be so obvious for us? Of course there are. Our mind is an amazing place and sometimes, it might be hard to interpret it the right way from the very first signs. But that doesn’t mean that the signs aren’t there. And sometimes, discovering them and accepting them might take a long time. Here are some sexual fantasies that you might be into, and some signs that might lead you to them!
1. You get excited by public sex
Public sex can be a turn on for many people but not all of them realize just how much they are into this sexual practice. And it can get many forms such as voyeurism or exhibitionism or even online sex by using a webcam. All these have the same root pleasure of being watched. If you find yourself exciting when you are with your partner in public, you might be into the same fetish and it would be a shame not to explore it more and see how your sexuality develops through it.
2. You like to be spanked around the house
Impact play is a common practice among BDSM enthusiast but even if you are not a BDSM enthusiast, you might find yourself turned on by such sexual games every now and then and misinterpret the excitement that you are feeling. If your partner spanks you around the house as a joke or for fun and you find yourself sexually interesting in more, you might want to try a paddle or a flogger and see how much it can actually excite you to be spanked. Talk with your lover and see if they are willing to engage into a session of impact play sexual stimulation and maybe you will discover a common fetish that you two share without even realizing it. After all, they are spanking you as a joke for a reason so there is a big chance to be something more in that apparently innocent gesture.
3. You like certain erotic videos
Watching erotic videos during masturbation is normal. Some couples even like to watch a hot video during their sexual encounters to stimulate them even more. But what kind of sexy videos are you watching? If you are into bondage videos you might be into real bondage sexual encounters as well. If you are watching group sex or orgies videos, you probably should give those sex scenes a try as and enrich your sexual life through it. Your partner will be more than happy to join you in such intense sexual experiences and you can help your relationship grow through such practices as well. All you have to do is keep an open mind and pay attention to the reactions of your own body when it comes to discovering new fantasies and fetishes.
These are only a few of the sexual fantasies that you might be into without being aware of. But there can be many others that pass you by on a regular basis. Talk with your lover and help them pay attention to these signs as well so you can both grow sexually and emotionally through new experiences and sexual encounters!
