Your Ultimate Guides to Erotic Domination - Part 2
Maid to Order: Having Fun Humiliating Your Sissy Sub
If there is one activity that can bring you (and your partner) endless time of games and fun, it’s sissy play. Plenty of men are into it (probably more than you think!)
READ MOREMale Orgasm Denial
They often say control is the key to power. Besides, who would disagree? "He who has control has everything" Oh, what a perfect saying…Except for a little detail. Change that "He" for a "She" and we are ready to go!
READ MOREMale Chastity Contracts
Want to make it official with your man and his chastity device? If you want to make it official, you will need a contract. Here are some guidelines as an example of how it could be; you can adapt from this and add o take the terms as needed.
READ MOREMale Orgasm Calendar
Have you ever wondered what happens after a male achieves orgasm (besides the obvious, of course, wink*)? If you haven't, it's actually really interesting (seriously!)
READ MOREMale Slave Training 101
It is no secret learning new things takes time. Abilities, a new hobby, a new lifestyle… It requires informing yourself about everything that's necessary in order to dominate this new routine.
READ MOREMaster’s Torture Chamber - Cock & Ball Torture
Genital torture can be a wonderful thing, even though the name implies something else wink*. Torturing the genitals is actually about that dual nature of alternating pleasure with pain.
READ MOREMistress At Play - Being The Dominant Woman
Trying some dominant-submissive play in the bedroom is always a good idea. This is a great opportunity to have fun and experience the psychological experience of dominating someone; more than the physical aspect of things.
READ MOREMistress Control
I have talked about controlling a man before, have I? It is one of my favorite subjects and one that is very useful. One of the good things is you can train your partner in very few simple steps.
READ MOREMy First Time - Being a Dungeon Monitor
A dungeon monitor is simply someone who makes sure the rules are being followed during a play scene or a party. Their job also entails creating a safe environment overall for everyone involved.
READ MORENever the Same Twice - Exploring Breast Bondage Rope Tying Techniques
Because I’m sure you are extremely curious to know how exactly you do breast bondage, I’ve brought you this really informative article about breast bondage techniques.
READ MORENew to BDSM? Here’s what you need to know
We all have our own secret fantasies, buried deep down inside our mind. We all have that desire we keep hidden from the world. But why? What are we afraid of? Are we afraid that we will be judged for our desire?
READ MOREOf Humans & Horses: Erotic Pony Play for Beginners
You may have heard about pony play before and have asked yourself: what on earth is that? And more importantly, is it for me? Do I want to try it? So how about we start to answer those questions, come and follow me along wink*.
READ MOREOf Pet-ty Claw-ses: Drawing up a Pet Play Contract
Sometimes, it is required to draw a contract in a pet play relationship. The arrangement will be different for each couple; the terms will vary and can include sexual behaviors, activities and mannerisms.
READ MOREOoh, La, La! Training Your Sissy Maid Properly
Training a sissy sub is quite complex but very rewarding. If you are interested on it, you will have to look out for the best method for you and your partner.
READ MOREOpen For Anything! Let’s Talk About Pegging & Your Relationship!
Pegging is a fairly common fantasy for both men and women, so it’s not a surprise so many couples are trying it. If you’re not sure about where to start with this process of introducing pegging to your relationship, you’re not alone.
READ MOREPenned Punishment: Creating a Contract For Your Sissy Slave
If you are interested in making your sissy slave relationship more formal with established rules, we’ve got you covered wink*. This is a model to give you some ideas about what clauses this contract can include.
READ MOREPerfect Lingerie for the Dominant in You
If you are a master or a mistress you have to look like one, especially when you get in the bedroom. A secret detail that you should take into account when you choose the outfit that you plan to wear is that leather outfits are always incredibly effective for dominants.
READ MOREPicture Perfect - Identifying Your Sub’s Interests
People have a wide variety of tastes. And for BDSM, finding that flavor is even more important. Figuring out what you like can take time but it is a necessity.
READ MOREPlug & Play - The Best Positions for Pegging
Whether you love pegging and are looking to get out of the routine and are looking for new positions to try it, or you’re a newbie considering for the best position to try it, you want to continue reading along.
READ MOREPull Baby Pull! – Cart Ponies & Their Lifestyles
Oh! The world of pony play… as fun and vast as a well-taken care of pasture…or a room full with toys wink*. As with any BDSM related activity, there are plenty of new things to learn and very well defined categories.
READ MOREPutting the Dom in dominatrix
What makes a dominatrix? Oh a question for the centuries. Each person will probably have something they associate closely with the term, but in general the terms include a mix of attitude and how you are presented.
READ MORERope Bondage Style Guide
Thankfully for us, there are several styles and methods one can practice rope bondage (can I get a hurrah?). The basis of rope bondage is, well, tying people up with rope, but is not that simple as it sounds.
READ MORESensual Male Femininity Training
Identity reframing implies a shift in a man's image of his own sexuality. With identity reframing, the main idea is to change how a man perceives himself.
READ MORESeven Ways to Play Rough With Your Sissy Sub
Sissy play is incredibly fun to engage in. As with any form on bondage, there are different ways to do it and how you practice it and what you choose to partake of will depend on your imagination and creativity!
READ MORESexual Control Over Males
A woman’s sexual control over men is undeniable. Whether it is the possibility of intercourse or the withdrawal of it, women hold all the power in those scenarios.
READ MORESexy & Safe Erotic Domination
If you are sure you are ready to embark on the responsibility that entails being a dominant; it’s time to step up to the next level. First, you need to take a good introspective look at yourself.
READ MORESharing your BDSM Fantasies
Introducing the idea of bondage and BDSM to your partner can be a bit nerve wracking. Whether is a new partner with whom you want to share your lifestyle or an old one that you want to get interested in this newfound passion of yours.
READ MOREShibari Rope Bondage 101
If you are interested in Shibari or Japanese rope bondage, you know it’s an art form: it takes a lot of time to learn, as well as dedication.
READ MORESissy Slave Humiliation List, Pt. 1
If you have a sissy slave, chances are you are constantly looking for new ways to humiliate them. And sometimes you run out of ideas, so how about you read on to find some creativity.
READ MORESissy Slave Humiliation List, Pt. 2
If you’re looking for some inspiration to humiliate your sissy slave, this list might give you some ideas. The good thing is, even if you don’t do it exactly like it says, you can always adapt it your needs or give it your own twist.
READ MORESit, Stay, Beg! Try BDSM Pet Play With Your Partner!
Pet play is one of the ways a couple can practice BDSM and the D/S lifestyle. It has a great number of members and it’s quite a well-known subculture among the lifestyle.
READ MORESlap Happy Sub Play - A Guide to Properly Spank Your Sub
Over the knee spankings are a common request for a lot of people out there…I’m guessing you’re here because you are on that band as well, right?
READ MOREStarting Dominatrix
Being more dominant in your sex life is more than just OK, it’s actually encouraged! There is something about having all the power and being in control that is completely exhilarating.
READ MOREStimulated & Safe - Practicing Sensory Play Together!
Although it may seem harmless, you will always need to practice some safety measures when you’re playing with something BDSM related… but I’m sure you already knew that, right?
READ MOREStir Up the Senses: Sensory Play for You & Your Partner!
If you’re looking to stimulate your partner’s (or yours!) senses, you’ve come to the right place, my love. There are plenty of different toys and instruments you can use to get those so looked after reactions in your body.
READ MORESuspension Bondage Safety Guide
Suspension bondage does look incredibly exciting and beautiful, I know, I’ve been there wink*. But if you have reading long enough, you have probably read that suspension bondage can also be quite dangerous.
READ MORESwitch Dynamics: Who gets tied up tonight?
Dan flips a coin, Michelle calls it in the air... Heads. The coin slowly flips and tumbles its way to the floor. They both wait for it with anticipation.
READ MORETempting Transformation - Creating a Dominatrix Persona
Being a dominatrix a lot of fun…for both the submissive and the dominatrix, of course wink*. If you are just starting out in this wonderful world, you may be eager for some tips and that is why I’m here for today.
READ MOREThe Awesome Power of BDSM Gags - Playing Safe & Secure!
If you are new to the BDSM world, you may have heard the term gag just about a million times… And you may have been to embarrassed to ask what it actually means and entails and why do people do it?
READ MOREThe Bad Touch - The ‘Don’ts’ of Humiliation Training
There are plenty of things involved in humiliation training. And as you know, everyone should be able to adapt it to their own needs. We always say you should find what works exactly for you and your partner; there is not a one size fits all model.
READ MOREThe Best Roleplays for Mature Couples
Let’s look at some of the most popular fetishes among mature couples who know exactly what they want and how to go for them!
READ MOREThe collaring ceremony checklist
Time has passed, the relationship between dominant and submissive has gone so well you have decided to make it official: a collaring ceremony will take place to symbolize your commitment and love for one another.
READ MOREThe fascination of wearing gloves and outfit accessories
When it comes to a perfect sexy outfit that you want to wear in order to impress your partner, you can go from one option to another before realizing how complex such a decision can be.
READ MOREThe Joys of Being a Mistress
Every female on the planet gets a bossy, power kick once in a while. Don't believe me? Wait until your husband or live-in boyfriend is on the couch watching television and there's garbage to be carried out.
READ MOREThe Master’s List of Creative Slave Commands, Pt. I
Every slave wants to feel owned, right? Because if they don’t feel their Master has control over them, what is even the point? The Master can achieve this through different ways, it can be something really small or a big gesture.
READ MOREThe Whole ‘Kitten’ Kaboodle - Essential BDSM Pet Play Gear & Toys
In order to do some fun pet play you will need to acquire some necessary accessories. What exactly do you need and how many pieces and elements you get will be entirely dependent on your type of play.
READ MOREToo Much of a Good Thing - Forced Orgasms Through BDSM
Forced orgasms? Isn’t that an oxymoron? In a way, it is. But it is a very common fantasy and a very normal BDSM play. It means a willing person will be “forced” by another one to have an orgasm again and again.
READ MORETraining Your Man to Obey
I believe that even the most submissive of woman has from time to time had the sexual fantasy of dominating her lover with bondage. The delicious and intoxicating feeling of being fully in control of your lover is truly seductive and highly erotic.
READ MORETrying out BDSM for the very first time?
So, you have decided to try out BDSM after all those years of reading about it on the internet. Well, you have made the right decision. In the world of BDSM, you are in for a lot.
READ MOREUnder my Thumb - Ways to Keep Your Male Sub Emasculated
If you are a dominatrix, chances are you are always looking out for new ideas to humiliate and emasculate your man. So, if you woke up today thinking to yourself, “man.
READ MOREWeighted Wearables - An Introduction to Cock & Ball Bondage Devices
When it comes to bondage, the possibilities are endless. It depends on what you like or what particular scene you want to try. But sometimes, something new may come in your way you didn’t thought about before.
READ MOREWhat A Showy Pony You Have!
Show ponies are the pony play category in which you can train your lovely pony to compete in shows. It’s probably the showiest category because the ponies are put in very exuberant tack.
READ MOREWhat do subs prefer: straightjackets, gags or hoods
When it comes to bondage sex toys and accessories that your submissive might like the most, things get extremely subjective. However, if you are new to this type of BDSM fetishes and fantasies and your relationship is new as well, things might be a bit more challenging.
READ MOREWhat is a Female Lead Relationship
The basic dynamic of a female led relationship is one in which both partners agree that the female will be the head of the relationship. The leader if you will.
READ MOREWhat is Cuckolding and Why Should We Try It?
Cuckolding is one of the most common searched terms out there so it’s safe to assume it’s one of the most common fantasies. Usually that fantasy comes with wanting to try it once.
READ MOREWhat Makes a Man Choose Submission
I can't count the number of times I've heard someone ask what makes a man choose submission. I've never really thought about it much as I also never really think about what makes a woman choose submission.
READ MOREWhat to Expect in a Dominant-Submissive Relationship
In the culture of BDSM, the relationship between dominant and submissive is usually maintained through certain rules or protocols. These rules reinforce the status and role of each participant.
READ MOREWhat type of Submissive Are You?
Just as there are several types of dominants, there are several types of submissives. Everyone has a different relationship with BDSM and everyone likes it for particular reasons; sometimes it is actually a combination of several things.
READ MOREWhy Domination is Freeing for the Female
Regardless of which gender you are, chances are you've thought the other had it easier. That's because we adapt to our gender roles and the complications that they bring and life without those same complications seems like it would be much simpler.
READ MOREWhy is Gold bondage gear so extremely sexy
So let’s see how gold bondage gear can change your entire perspective on sexual encounters and take the whole experience to a new and more exciting level!
READ MOREWorktime IS Playtime! Having Fun With Your BDSM Slave
Having a slave is one of the most fun things in the world. And having fun with them while they are in bondage is even more fun wink*. Some people ask themselves, “but what exactly are we going to do?”
READ MOREYee-haw! Training Your Pet Pony for Playtime!
The main point about having a pony is to play with it, right? And just like any other form of play, it’s going to take some effort to get there…and just like any kind of play, it’s definitely worth it wink*.
READ MOREYes, Ma’am - Taking Control As A New Dominatrix
If you’ve never thought you could be more dominant in the bedroom, think again. Experimenting with domination is a great way to explore your own sexuality, try something different with your partner and most of all, have plenty of fun!
READ MOREYou Belong To Me - Training Boundaries for your new BDSM Sissy Slave
A sissy slave loves to please their Mistress or Master, obviously. During the training process you will experience a great amount of things, depending on the activities your master/mistress decides and how long the sessions are.
READ MOREYoung & Wild: Getting Into BDSM Puppy Play
Puppy play is one the most common forms of pet play, probably because: who doesn’t love puppies? It plays with the master/slave dynamic a little bit in the sense someone is the owner and the other trainer will follow orders.
READ MOREYour Benevolent Master - Caring For Your Slave During & After Humiliation Training
If you are looking to initiate some humiliation training, there are some things you need to keep in mind before you begin. You should obviously have a discussion with your partner/slave.
READ MOREYour First Time: Wearing a Dildo Harness
Your first time wearing a dildo harness can be somewhat intimidating (just like any first times, really) but you don’t need to worry about it. The first thing you need to know is, for your dildo to work, it will need to have a flared base.
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