Augmenting your femininity is always a good idea to make you feel better about yourself: this can make you feel empowered, confident and powerful all at the same time. Some people tend to be more in touch with their masculine energy, while others move around the spectrum quite a bit. That is why sometimes you need to really focus into tapping that energy. Both men and women can do this every once in a while to maintain that sought after balance and achieve that equilibrium.
Like I have probably mentioned before, feminine energy is all about transformation and movement; that is why it is commonly associated with nature (because it is never static). That energy is always transforming and moving forward, so if you have been stuck for some time you may loose it. This means taking a walk out in nature, doing some yoga, dancing in your living room, or whatever it is you feel like doing. The important part here is to get moving for the energy to flow freely through you.
And that also has to do with restriction. Given that this energy needs to be flowing all the time, it doesn’t like things that obstruct its path. You need to feel free to tap into that energy, and that is why it is a good idea to get rid of your pants for a while. Wear more dresses and skirts, or simply walk around with nothing underneath…. but probably not in public wink* You may feel more free because you are not confined into something.
A cool way to also get that feminine energy flowing is to be with other women. After all, what better way to channel feminine qualities than being with the gender? If you are a woman go out with some girlfriends for some womanly time and if you are a man, try spending more time surrounded by women. It is as easy as eating a peach…wink*
And this also has to do a lot with communicating. You can unplugged yourself and make some time to catch up with family and friends, and make sure you do this by focusing your attention on them (so turn off your phone for example) Have honest and deep conversations about one another, don’t get stuck in small talk. Talk about what has been going on in your lives, your feelings, where you are in life, your expectations, your fears, etc.
One of the greatest things about being a woman is to be able to orgasm a lot. So a good way to get your energy flowing is by having more orgasms. When you orgasm frequently, you may find you are more relaxed, have more creativity and have a deeper emotional connection. And yes, I added some benefits but I am sure you don’t need me to tell you twice about all the good things about orgasms because who doesn’t want to orgasm more frequently? This is only the perfect excuse.
Because of how nature works, masculine energy is associated with a penetrative force while female energy is associated with receptive energy. That is why you should do more receiving instead of giving. You can explore this in many different ways; if you want to do it sexually, that is fine, but make sure to incorporate some non-sexual things to the mix as well. It is a good idea for someone to cook for you, to give you a massage, a mani-pedi, a facial, etc. The idea is to be at the receiving end of things at least more often.
And last but not least, augment that feminine energy by using your senses. You will need to indulge them to get them working because we tend to take them for granted. Drink some wine or scotch, eat some dark chocolate or food that you love. Touch more things and really feel their texture, pay attention to the things that surround you. Start living by your senses instead of simply going through the motions.