Male chastity and bondage have been around for ages, and have been used by couples to enhance their sexual relationship. In fact, modern research has even shown that sexual denial can keep a man’s sexual energy and interest at its peak, resulting in more intense and pleasurable sex for her - and ironically for him too! Plus, orgasm control in general has also been linked to better physical health in men.
An Introduction to Male Chastity
What is male chastity? For many people, chastity for men involves having a keyholder who controls when her partner gets to orgasm. The keyholder can take control in lots of different ways (I’ll go into more detail later), but what they all have in common is that there’s a sexual power exchange going on. The dominant holds all of the power over when, where, and how long her submissive can come—and he has to do exactly as she says in order to get an orgasm. Bondage often plays a role too—sometimes with a physical bondage device or sometimes just by restricting access to his genitals. Sexual denial increases desire because it forces you to re-focus your attention from sex to other things. It also makes orgasms really special, which makes them even more rewarding down the road. Men who are regularly denied pleasure report higher levels of enjoyment after getting off than men who regularly climax without restraint...not to mention female partners experience greater satisfaction too! Lastly, male chastity can be incredibly hot! As you'll see later on in this guide, there are many different types of male chastity devices available--the hardcore ones look like medieval torture devices (and feel like them too!). So, if getting controlled and dominated turns you on (or if it sounds like something you'd like to try) then read on.
Three Benefits of Male Chastity
- It increases her pleasure - Male chastity devices are designed to provide stimulation, but to deny orgasm. Not being able to have an orgasm result in increased sexual frustration which leads to more intense orgasms when he is allowed to climax.
- It intensifies your relationship - Male chastity is a powerful trust exercise, because it requires that you allow your partner to take control of your sexuality by denying you release until she decides that it's time for you too orgasm. It helps remind both partners that sex isn't just something he wants or something she enjoys - it's an activity they do together as part of their intimate relationship.
- It makes playtime last longer - The inability to orgasm encourages submissives to pay attention to what is happening during kinky playtime with his dominant instead of focusing on how much fun things are. For many submissives, their entire focus shifts from I want my release to how can I please my dominant? When his only task during BDSM sessions becomes pleasing his dominant, BDSM sessions naturally last longer and tend to be far more pleasurable for everyone involved.
Different Types of Male Chastity Devices
If you’re interested in trying male chastity play, it can be a little confusing to know where to start. There are lots of different kinds of devices that you can use depending on what type of chastity play you’re into. We don’t recommend picking up a chastity device at random and hoping for good results—always do your research first! For example, there are several different types of male chastity belts; some men may prefer one style over another. Many slaves find that these golden keys create a very arousing mental image when they wear them around their necks while performing chores or pleasing her in bed. Not all male chastity cages have locks or keys—many men who enjoy being teased wear these cages with nothing more than small padlocks attached to tease their partners by dangling just out of reach until she releases them later in the evening. Some male chastity cages come complete with cock rings or even clitoral stimulation attachments! It really just depends on what feels right for you both.
Tips For First Time Male Chastity Owners
Before you dive into chastity, there are a few things to consider that can make or break your experience. To start, be aware of what you're getting yourself into. It's no easy feat to give up control of when you orgasm, so it's important to be sure you can handle whatever feelings of arousal come with not having control over when you orgasm. Next is communication. You'll want to communicate with your partner about what they expect from male chastity. And lastly, recognize that male chastity isn't right for everyone — just like anything else in a relationship — and that's okay! Don't feel pressured into it if it doesn't feel right. If you do decide to try it out, go slow! Lots of guys make the mistake of trying chastity too fast without talking their partner through every step first. If she's not comfortable during any part of it, you need to stop. Remember - slow but steady wins the race! There are other factors to take into consideration (whether or not both parties involved will be satisfied with male chastity), but those should help get you started on figuring out if male chastity is right for you and your relationship.
