A man's genitals are the most sensitive area of his body, as well as the most vulnerable, so of course Dom/me's love to play with them! Both cock tease and torture have the power to build your male sub to the most intense of orgasms, and what sub wouldn't want that? Of course, they will have to do whatever their Dom/me says, involving some pain, but I promise it will hurt so good! And don't forget, a little pain goes a long way! *wink*
Let's start with ball tease and torture. Balls are quite a fragile area, so keep this in mind with all the different types of ball torture you choose to engage in. Never use too much pressure, or there could be permanent damage, and no one wants that! You'll always be able to tell how much is too much by your sub's reaction, and this is why it's sooo important to start slowly! But don't worry! Being safe does not limit the amount of tantalizing ways a Dom/me can play. Slapping and squeezing are great activities for beginners to ball tease and torture. When slapping, grab the testicles with one hand and slap with the other. Start with less force at first, letting you sub adjust to the sensations. Before long, that little slap will feel so faint that he'll be begging his Master for more, harder! *g* Slapping while the balls hang loose will generally cause much more intense pain, so I don't recommended it for beginners. But, you won't be a beginner forever, and for those subs whose pain gets their blood running hotter than ever, you will definitely want to give that loose slapping a try! *g*
Squeezing is another ball tease and torture method, and is a great one for beginners. Like with slapping, don't start with too much force, so that your sub's balls can get warmed up to those arousing feelings (and you'll be able to see just how turned on he is! *wink*). Light squeezing is going to be more of a tease, and the harder you go, the more deliciously tortuous it will become. If you pull down on the balls before you squeeze them, it will produce a greater sensation, which is great for both light and hard squeezing. As he adjusts to the squeezing, his threshold for pain will be much higher, and that pain will be transformed heavenly pleasure.
To assist in ball tease and torture, there are many stretchers and separators that will keep him tightly in place, so your every touch will get his attention immediately, like the perfect little slave that he is! *g* Plus, these will free your hands for other things… I recommend a cock ring for beginners, as it isn't quite as strict. A ball stretcher is great too, because you can attach weights to add intensity later on as your desires build up over time. And the fun with this gadget is just getting started: this ball stretcher is perfect for attaching a leash and leading your slave around by his balls. Every little tug will show him who's boss as you lead him around on, perhaps, your leather lead: he'll be obeying your every command.
Cock tease and torture involves essentially the same safety concerns as the balls, so don't forget to play safe, start slow, and pay attention to your sub's reactions. Using a feather to tickle your sub's penis is a great method of teasing for beginners. It will stimulate his cock until it's so hard and he's so turned on he'll be begging for you to please him. And the more he's turned on, the higher his threshold for that tortuous, erotic pain will be, so you'll really be able to do what you like with him! *g* If he's really been naughty, you might want to choose just the right whip for the occasion. I'd say a beginning can safely use a whip, but make sure to be careful. Never use too much force or it could cause some real damage. And not to worry…just a little force goes a long way! Beginners should stick to short, softer whips for maximum control and for easing into the whipping sensation. If he gets too turned on, you might want to cool him off by rubbing a little ice over his cock. This will show him just how in control you are, which will surely put him on his best behavior. *wink*
There are also many binding devices for play that are immensely useful and fun in cock tease and torture (often times, like with ball torture, hands free is a must...*g*). Using something like a steel cage chastity, you can tease him with your feather or your tongue through those thin bars until he thinks he can't take it anymore, but he has to, because he's all locked up! *teehee* Erection rings will keep him in place and keep him from swelling too much while you've got your suede whip out. This one is especially great for beginners because it doesn't have the severity of some other options (which I'm sure be trying out later on…*wink*).
With all those nerve endings on you sub's genitals, every Dom/me should try working their magic and wield their power with cock and ball tease and torture from time to time, or all involved—both Dom/me and sub—will be missing out on some intense pleasure. And there's plenty more where that came from— what I've said here is only the beginning…*g*
