Remember that first time you got tied up and blindfolded in bed with your lover? Everything was exciting, new, and slightly scary because you didn’t know what to expect, but you trusted them to take care of you, and they did. Now imagine what it would be like if they had put on a ball gag as soon as the restraints were on—before they touched you at all. You couldn’t speak or tell them how much you liked what they were doing, so you had to try to moan or make other sounds to show them how much you were enjoying it.
Benefits of Using a Ball Gag
A ball gag is a tool used for forced silence, and as such is usually associated with BDSM. It works by placing a large, inflatable ball in a person’s mouth and then using straps to hold it in place. This causes an intense pressure on your jaw, which can be very uncomfortable - but can also increase endorphin production. You may find that you get wetter or hornier when gagged during sex. The fact that you have no choice but to accept whatever is happening to you can also make it easier to enter subspace.
How to Choose the Best Ball Gag for You
Every human being has a voice, but some people are louder than others. If you've ever been in a romantic relationship with someone who won't stop talking, you know what we're talking about. The same can be said for subs who don't know when to keep their mouths shut during sex. In most BDSM relationships, it's expected that submissives will communicate everything they need while on scene by speaking softly and calmly to their Dominants. But as anyone who has ever been tied up and gagged knows, silence is also an effective means of communication! While there are many different types of ball gags out there on the market today, they all serve one major purpose: To make your partner’s mouth useless while you play around with them sexually.
How to Wear a Submissive in a Ball Gag
The ball gag is an effective tool for silencing your submissive’s screams. Most submissives aren’t used to having anything in their mouths, which can make wearing a ball gag extremely uncomfortable at first. Have your partner hold their mouth open as wide as possible so you can gently insert and adjust the gag; then
tighten it by pulling on both ends until it fits snugly but comfortably in place. The ball gag should sit behind their front teeth, but be sure to try your positioning out with different sized balls. Some subs find larger balls more comfortable while others prefer a smaller size that fills up more of their mouth.
What to Wear When Wearing One
Depending on your outfit, you have a few options for how to wear a ball gag. If you want to wear it with a full outfit, garter belt and stockings are great accessories. Additionally, ball gags look especially hot when worn with lingerie. Underneath whatever you’re wearing, you should also make sure to wear a mouth-covering lipstick or gloss that matches your skin tone and complements your style; doing so will minimize chafing around your mouth area while also making it seem like less of an eye-catching contrast between what’s inside of your mouth and what’s out.
