You’re intrigued by the idea of bondage and blindfolds, but you’re not quite sure how to get started. Fear not! Here are 10 sensual ideas for blindfold bondage that will make your explorations fun and flirty while teaching you about this wide world of pleasure-play!
1.) Tease Her
One of my favorite things to do while I am blindfolded is being teased. A light tickle across my chest and stomach, a soft brush against my nipples, your warm breath on my neck... you can imagine how much fun all these things are when they’re happening to me without me being able to see it! Go ahead and tease her just as much as you want. (Don’t forget her erogenous zones!) From feathers to fingernails and everything in between, make her squirm with delight.
2.) Get Him Naked
Strip your lover of all her clothes. Depending on what you have planned, you may want to restrain her at some point, so consider getting a pair of cuffs and a spanker or paddler beforehand if they’re not part of your arsenal. Once she's naked, it might be wise to grab a blindfold as well—either way, you can always remove it later on once things get hot and heavy. Then set out your restraints and any toys that will be involved in playtime before getting started.
3.) Blindfold Me and Spank Them
If your partner is blindfolded, he or she will be more susceptible to your touch because they have no control over where you decide to touch them. Don’t take advantage of that though—let them enjoy being able to surrender their sense of sight and move forward with sensuality. Keep in mind that during a sensory deprivation scene, there is no way for your partner to see if you are teasing them. Therefore, if they don’t feel anything it might seem like you aren’t even touching them (or hitting them with a paddle) at all. This means that you need to let him or her know what’s going on with some kind of cue words like harder, lighter, softer etc.
4.) Let Her Experience Pleasure
Sensory deprivation is exciting, it is when you block all sense of sight, sound, and touch. I know it's not necessarily practical for most people—especially if they're in a long-term relationship—but it can be fun to experiment with. Just once in a while! It also allows your other senses to really focus on pleasure: Touching and feeling your lover is heightened when they cannot see them, giving a unique opportunity to experience intimacy from an entirely different perspective.
5.) Throw Them Over Your Knee
Most people enjoy a good old-fashioned spanking every now and then, but are you incorporating enough variety into your playtime? Have you thought about tying someone up and giving them a spanking with something other than your hand? Grab some restraint cuffs or a nice firm spank paddle, and turn your lover over your knee. The result is an intense experience that takes away their control while adding visual sensory deprivation to their experience. The key here is to make sure they know it’s coming—or at least that you might give them one in any moment—and to make sure they can trust you not to cross any boundaries by going too far.
6.) Dominate Me
Whether you’re into kink or not, there are many reasons to be in control of your senses. Sexually, you can take advantage of sensory deprivation by removing all visual stimuli and focusing on what your body is telling you. This is an incredibly intimate experience that allows both partners to put their focus solely on one another. A blindfold and a pair of cuffs will have any lover begging for more!
7.) Be My Eyes
When you’re in control, blindfolds bondage can be a very pleasurable experience; when you have your partner wear a blindfold, it puts them in your hands. Ask him or her to close their eyes and surrender to your demands—what will you do next? Will you kiss them tenderly? Brush them with a feather tickler? Or bind them up in some restraints while whipping their ass with that firm spank paddle, they were so excited about when they purchased it at your shop back home?
8). Give Them Pleasure
A blindfold blocks out a person’s normal sense of sight, which can encourage a heightened awareness of their other senses. Take advantage of your lover’s blindness by using them to explore all their erogenous zones. The only real limit is your imagination! As long as you pay careful attention to what they love and respond well to, you’ll get lots of pleasure and intimacy from bondage play like this.
9). Take Them on a Fantasy Adventure
Put your lover’s blindfold on and then spend an hour or so taking them on a fantasy adventure they’ll never forget. All their other senses will be heightened – taste, touch, smell, hearing, and even sense of balance. Be creative with your adventures! Here are a few places to start: an imaginary trip to an exotic location, through a tunnel of love, in a poolside cabana, etc.
10). Tease Me Until I Beg for It
Encourage your lover to focus on their sense of touch. Beginning with a teasing massage, you can work from head to toe and incorporate feathers, fur, ice cubes, and anything else that gets both of you hot. Spend some time teasing all of their senses until they are begging for it. Once they’re truly turned on, use restraints like cuffs to keep them in place while you explore your sensual possibilities.
