Don’t know what they are or how they work? Spreadeagle! Or so you shall be, once you try out the sexiest piece of bondage equipment ever invented... the spreader bar! Whether you’re looking to enhance your solo sessions or want to bring something kinky and different into the bedroom, this bar will keep your slave open and waiting for whatever you desire which, from what we’ve heard, makes it one of the hottest sex toys around today.
What's It Like to Use a Spreader Bar for Bondage Play
If you’ve ever dreamed of experiencing BDSM (bondage, discipline, sadism, masochism) in real life but aren’t quite sure how to get started, know that it’s easier than it may seem. All it takes is two willing participants who are ready to explore their fantasies together. There are many different kinds of bondage equipment available and below we will tell you about one of them - the spreader bar. We all fantasize about being tied up sometimes. For some, there's a certain draw to having someone bind their wrists or fasten a collar around their neck... But with so much emphasis on ropes and handcuffs today, there is less attention given to other types of restraints such as spreader bars. And while they might not be as popular as they once were, they can actually be great for those new to kinky sex or those into more extreme S&M play like suspension bondage. They're also really easy to use!
Here's how:
- To begin, just lie down on your back.
- Then raise your legs straight above you, keeping them close together.
- Then, have your partner take each ankle and cuff it to each leg of the spreader bar using Velcro-closing cuffs.
- After securing your ankles to opposite ends of the bar, you should be left bent open at both ends, wide open for whatever activities your Dom/me has planned next.
It's really an incredibly simple restraint system to understand. Now that it's clear how spreader bars work, let's talk about why they can be appealing to people interested in BDSM for first timers or those looking for something outside of regular dominance/submission play.
Why You Should Use a Spreader Bar for Bondage Play
It provides full open access to your bottom or submissive partner. Of course, one of the most obvious reasons people turn to spreader bars for bondage fun is because they leave your bottom entirely exposed and vulnerable. With your legs and ankles separated from each other by a good foot or more, there's no way to move or cover yourself up – which means you're completely at your Top's mercy. For some couples who enjoy such an intense level of control-play, that is all they really need to get off on their play time; feeling so utterly vulnerable in front of someone else can be an incredibly arousing experience in itself!
But aside from just making it easier for your partner to access and manipulate every inch of your body without any resistance whatsoever, spreading open and exposing your body also opens up lots of possibilities in terms of what kinds of BDSM play you can engage in with them.
Selecting The Best Type of Spreader Bar for BDSM Play
When it comes to choosing a spreader bar for BDSM play, it’s important to select one that is both comfortable and effective. That may sound easier than it actually is since there are so many types of BDSM sex toys out there, including leather and metal spreader bars for your bondage pleasure. To help narrow down your options, consider these three basic aspects when shopping around for a new toy: durability, length and comfort. You want something that can withstand all kinds of punishment without breaking down over time. Length refers to how far apart each attachment point is placed on either end of its total length; typically speaking longer attachments provide more open access while shorter attachments provide less room but more control during playtime. Finally, try before you buy! Each individual has their own preferences in terms of comfort, so it's best to handle any potential toy before making an actual purchase. Doing so ensures you have some idea what you're getting into prior to donning leather straps or locking yourself up with metal restraints! Once properly equipped with a suitable spreader bar or two, there's no limit to where your imagination will take your next session...or series of sessions!
