If you just had a baby, your body will go through a lot of changes that you and your partner will have to adapt to, in order to get back to your exciting and intense sexual encounters that you are most likely missing so much! And the most affected parts of your body are your breasts and your genitalia. While the genitalia is affected for obvious reasons, your breasts might not be so obviously affected but the fact that you will most likely start to breastfeed soon will show you exactly just what changed. And it is better to be aware of these changes, so you will also have time to be prepared for them. So, let’s see how does sex change after you become a mother and how does breastfeeding intervene with your sexual practices and preferences.
1. You might postpone breast bondage…for a while
If you are a fan of breast bondage, as exciting and intense as this sexual practice might be, it is recommended to avoid such sexual encounters when you are breastfeeding. The reasons are obvious when it comes to leaking and unexpected sensations that might not be the most pleasant ones. However, you can use your rope for other types of bondage that will successfully make up for this type of bondage in particular. And you can also discover new forms of bondage during this time that will help you develop your sex life and your relationship. Use your imagination and make sure to share your thoughts and concerns with your partner so that you can both work as a team during this period and discover new ways of sexual pleasure and satisfaction.
2. Nipple clamps are a no-no also
The reasons why you should avoid nipple clamps are similar with the reasons that stand behind avoiding breast bondage. This type of sexual toys and accessories might also cause you unexpected pain and discomfort rather than the excitement that you are used to experience when you add them to your sexual encounters. This doesn’t mean that you shouldn’t stimulate your nipples or your breasts at all, but you should pay extra attention to different types of stimulation and find the ones that suit your body best. Suction toys might be very appropriate during such an important time and most women who breastfeed are using them often because they bring them the pleasure that they are seeking but their partners enjoy them as well which is very important.
3. Your partner might like some leaking so don’t feel embarrassed by it
To your surprise, your partner might be more than charmed by all the biological changes that your body goes through. They liked your breasts before the giving birth phase so they will like them even more after and this will stimulate their imagination and creative skills to try new sexual encounters and fetishes with you. Men actually prefer to have sex with pregnant women and after their ladies are giving birth they feel like they are having sex with them for the first time all over again. This will regenerate your sex life for the long run and there are advantages to take into consideration during all these intense changes. Don’t be ashamed of the transformations that your body goes through and embrace them in order to grow sexually and emotionally. This will have a positive impact on your relationship for the long run as well.
Breastfeeding is an important phase in a woman’s life and it is also overwhelming from an emotional point of you. You will not experience only physical changes and sexual changes but you will also deal with a lot of hormones that will intervene with your sexual desire and preferences and have a high impact on your sex drive. The more prepared you are for this phase, the better you will overcome these changes and your partner will be there with you in this amazing journey as a new mother!
