Researchers found out that BDSM has a lot of benefits on both the submissive and the dominant partners and it can be the basis of a growing relationship that will reach higher levels of pleasure and satisfaction. Among these advantages, people who practice BDSM might have less anxiety and this sexual behaviour could act like a treatment for those with these types of issues.
For outsiders, there can’t be anything relaxing about whips, floggers, handcuffs and bondage systems but for BDSM enthusiasts, these practices are a great way to release stress as well as self-control that they are looking forward to experience. Practitioners of BDSM say that it is more than just kinky sex to it, and some practices can enhance the psychological well-being of their partners which is why they tend to prefer certain aspects of BDSM more than others, based on their physical and psychological needs.
Recent studies confirmed that BDSM practices can have positive effects on a human’s mind and they are known to reduce anxiety and other stressful consequences of one’s daily life which can affect them at an emotional level as well. Especially submissive partners who give up all control during a BDSM scene, they will experience a higher level of emotional and stressful relief and will enjoy every instant of being abandoned in their dominant’s arms and not having any responsibility during the sexual encounter.
This erases the problems that they are facing during their lives outside the bedroom and gives them power to continue to fight and be stronger in a variety of situations because a BDSM scene that was well done and followed with a safe, sane and consensual rule will always have positive effects on both partners and will recharge their inner batteries so to speak for whatever life has reserved for them. BDSM is an escape for most activists and also a way to express themselves in a new light, without having the occasion to do that outside their BDSM relationship.
Anxiety is caused by stress generated by external factors and instead of taking a medical treatment or trying interminable sessions of meditation, BDSM provides those who suffer of high levels of anxiety with a great, entertaining and fun solution: stress released through the exchange of power done during an intense sexual encounter. BDSM practices also helps the two partners involved to release the stress and the tension that destroys their relationships.
As no couple is perfect and arguments can happen any time, indulging in an intense BDSM session might be the best solution to deal with everything and chances are that by the end of it both you and your partner will feel more connected to each other, more relaxed and more open to each other and will have a better relationship over time. The main practice used for stress release during a BDSM scene is bondage, in all its forms and at all its levels. If the bondage is done correctly, what will follow are just simple details because the excitement and the enthusiasm are already achieved by using the right rope or the right suspension system, both of them being intense and extremely hot if used correctly.
If you didn’t try any BDSM scene yet, this might be a great reason to start and talk with your partner about it. Especially if one or both of you feel that you suffer from a high level of anxiety, giving BDSM a try can radically change things for the better and open new sexual possibilities for both of you. Make sure that you are both on the same page and that you trust each other enough to dive into this community and do some research to know where you can start and how to take it gradually. BDSM is a learning process and the more you apply what you learn the better your sexual life will become. Don’t forget about the safe, sane and consensual rule, the one and only rule in any BDSM scene, and to enjoy each other!
