Lubes can be your best friend during sexual intercourse, especially for those positions in which natural moisture doesn’t work so well. The right lube can save you from a lot of uncomfortable friction and even keep your condom from drying up. You can use your imagination and creative skills to discover many ways to use different lubricants in order to make your sexual encounters more enjoyable. The market offers a variety of lubricants from which you can choose from based upon your flavor and texture preferences. Consult with your partner when you are shopping for a new lube because you don’t want to buy one with a flavor he has allergies or a strong distaste for. Lube should be a constant presence in all your sexual encounters and always try to have it handy even before things get wild because natural lube is not always a given. If you are a beginner and lack inspiration when it comes to how you can use your lubricant, here are some great ideas that will help you to start using it the right way!
1. Use it during masturbation
Even when you are enjoying a good session of masturbation alone, your hands might get dry and unpleasant to use in intimate areas. Many people start using a moisturizing lotion that is not designed to touch such sensitive skin as their genitalia, and this can cause more harm than good. Many moisturizing lotions have chemicals that can damage your skin and give you uncomfortable side effects due to the fact that they are moisturizers, not lubricants. These side effects can be even more devastating if you are using such a cream inside you. Use your lubricant when you play with your dildo or even your vibrator and don’t be afraid to get it in other areas of your body as well. With the right lubricant, your masturbation sessions can become your favorite hobby. The only toys you should try avoiding lubes on are the electro-stimulating devices, but if you really need to use it when you are playing with such toys, try to keep it as safe as possible. Make sure you check the manufactures recommendations for usage.
2. Use it during intercourse
During sexual intercourse, you can use lube in a variety of ways that can be just as exciting for both you and your partner. You can put it directly on your body, on your partner’s body or on the condom itself. Just make sure to not put too much lube because you don’t want his penis to be sliding everywhere and not enjoy the pleasure of penetration at all. A small drop of lube can go a long way on a penis. However, if such an accident happens, you can easily fix it by wiping a little off with a tissue or cloth towel. Also remember that you don’t want to reduce the entire friction between your bodies but just the right amount in order to make it more comfortable. Lubricants can be used during vaginal and anal intercourse, but also when you and your lover are simply playing with each other’s bodies. It will make such a big difference and you will not be able to imagine having sex without it ever again. Not to mention that you might be able to even increase from a medium size dildo or butt plug to a larger size one.
3. Lube your condom
Condoms come in a variety of styles, colors and even shapes, but they also come pre-lubricated as well as with no lube at all, to be aware. When you put lube on your condom, you don’t have to put a lot to increase your sexual sensations. Many guys don’t like to wear condoms because they take away from the pleasure of sexual intercourse, but by adding a few drops of lube you may increase the sensitivity that you are feeling inside the latex. Besides this, you can even use lube during a blow job and literally, in any other sexual way that you can think of to create a more natural, free flowing pleasurable feeling.
